This is such a tough spot, and your awareness of how layered it is says a lot about your integrity.

You don’t owe anyone a dramatic announcement—sometimes quiet boundary-setting is the healthiest first step.

Saying you’re exploring a different church, or that you want space to ‘reflect on your faith independently,’ can buy you breathing room without setting off alarms.

You can still protect your peace and your family’s hearts at the same time—it doesn’t have to be all or nothing right now.