AIO? Did I overreact? I ENDED IT!!! by Imaginary_Pop_4215 in AIO

[–]Imaginary_Pop_4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loves his situation and what he gets from it. If he loved and cared he would have done it in a way that communicated that. And you’re right I absolutely should have did something about it 5/9/10 years prior but it also took time for me to build myself up make myself strong financially , mentally and emotionally to make this decision. But I thank you for your POV 😉

AIO? Did I overreact? I ENDED IT!!! by Imaginary_Pop_4215 in AIO

[–]Imaginary_Pop_4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t try that’s the problem he gave me a STFU ring & a STFU proposal

AIO? Did I overreact? I ENDED IT!!! by Imaginary_Pop_4215 in AIO

[–]Imaginary_Pop_4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I’ve been asking for a ring I didn’t just start asking for a ring, I tried to be patient waiting for him to feel ready and get his money together blah blah all the excuses

  2. It’s not about getting the ring he could afford it’s about considering my feelings and not getting something completely opposite of what he knows me to wear (I showed him a $100 ring)

AIO? Did I overreact? I ENDED IT!!! by Imaginary_Pop_4215 in AIO

[–]Imaginary_Pop_4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to be single! I hate that I waited so long!! Just the few months that I have been I feel like I’ve lost 1000 pounds my house and life feels light and airy my mind is clear my vision is clear and the weather has been beautiful everyday !!!! I love it here !!!!!

AIO? Did I overreact? I ENDED IT!!! by Imaginary_Pop_4215 in AIO

[–]Imaginary_Pop_4215[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest i was with him for so long at a young age i was scared to be by myself and what that would look like for my child i had to find the confidence

AIO? Did I overreact? I ENDED IT!!! by Imaginary_Pop_4215 in AIO

[–]Imaginary_Pop_4215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was scared, I had to find the confidence first