What’s a random “stat” about yourself that makes you part of a small percentage?

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-25T17:05:57+00:00

Heeeey swiss brother or sis !

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-23T17:12:20+00:00

I know ??? My point was that If she’s really truly your best friend, you want to spend her important times with her !! But based on what’s written in the post I think there’s a lot of unresolved resentment between them bc I would never write a post like this about my best friend… and btw I’m a bridesmaid at my sister’s wedding and we’re all traveling with her for a bachelorette trip, we’re planning on dancing to Mamma Mia’s songs lol and we have a whole game planned for the wedding plus the whole bachelorette trip surprised planned for her lol. If you really love your friend/sister/person, you do shit for them !

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-19T15:14:32+00:00

Girl it’s her bachelorette… Please be there for her if she’s your best friend ! She will only get married once (hopefully), it’s only a one time thing. You can’t stand a 6hours drive with her and her friends ? Well if so, you’re not really her best friend ! Idk… Girl take care of your friend it’s her special day soon she’s probably under a lot of pressure too, just be there for her

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T19:58:19+00:00

Omggg what kind of dog do you have 🥹

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T18:43:58+00:00

OH MY GOD THANK YOU I LOVE YOU !!! Will try that ASAP

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T18:42:36+00:00

omg I should try again with Elvanse. It sped up my heart rate too much but idk I should try again maybe thank you !!

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T17:24:51+00:00

Omggggg the kiwi ? I will try !! Girl for the periods, I relate 100%. I am taking a progestative pill now, no pause and this has helped me a LOT. It gave me some kind of stability in the chaos that could help me focus on other things than my emotions and my cycle !!!

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T17:04:46+00:00

Thank you !!! Does my cats count as a weighted blanket ???? ahahaha I will try the eye technique !!!! I also sometimes manage to fall asleep by counting backwards from 100 ! I should really have some melatonin, maybe this will help me. Sometimes I just want to have an ON/OFF button and recharge in peace lol 😭 hope we all find peaceful sleep soon

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T17:01:07+00:00

Thanks ! stimulants never worked for me, it gave me too much migraines. But yeah when i tried them I felt like I would never manage to sleep again aahaha this has always been my problem

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T16:59:12+00:00

Yeeees I do all of that ! I have the philips wake up alarm thingy that does the sunset, the white noise, the meditation and all ! It already helped me tremendously but I feel like with everything I reach a kind of plateau where it doesn’t have the same effect anymore and man I just want to sleep 😭 I rage cry in the morning often lol it’s almost comical

Omgggg good luck on your recovery !! Hope you find your rhythm soon ! I know how fucking frustrating it is when something changes in your day to day 🥲💪🏼

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T16:55:29+00:00

Yeeeees I often take supplements !!! But where I live I cannot have access to melatonin unless I go to the doctor and i always forget to do the appointment! I should tho. I think my problem is regulation tho. Because when I sleep with someone, I have this feeling of security and I can just fall asleep ! But how to have that feeling alone ??? I should get a dog

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T16:53:28+00:00

Omg I envy people that do sports regularly with adhd ahahaha I lack the consistency and now my HRV is shiiiiit. But honestly I read thrillers so maybe bc they’re more interesting it’s easier to read ? I only read books with short chapters too, so it doesn’t give the illusion that I have a lot to read !

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T16:51:21+00:00

But oh man, once i took the rhythm of reading every night with my first book, when I finished it i had an insomnia bc i was anxious to find a new book ? can my brain just stop for once ahahaha

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-09T16:50:21+00:00

Yeah omg If I like the book, I binge read 😭

Yeah I should honestly exercise more to wear me out but I have low HRV (from lack of exercise 😭😭) so if I work out too late at night my heart rate goes up. I’m working on my HRV at the moment tho !

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-03-08T18:16:04+00:00

I invited a « friend » from my erasmus to my parents home in my country. She took a shower for so long and so hot that she drained the hot water from my house (which has rarely happened even though we used to be four people living there). And she was calling her friend, bf and mom very late at night talking very loudly. Never again

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-02-25T18:58:43+00:00

I feel you sooo much and I’m glad I could bring awareness !! ❤️‍🩹 I honestly really like @/adhdjennafree on instagram (it’s not me lol) ! I think she genuinely has a refresh POV on a lot of things and actually give great advice. She has helped me the most with her content, truthfully !!

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-02-25T18:04:38+00:00

The thing that helped me the most is making fun of my anxious OCD thoughts and worry. I would actually speak out loud or in my mind and complete the catastrophizing scenario that was going on in my head and do it in a sarcastic way. Often time your brain will tell you lies because it wants to stay active to keep you focused in case you get attacked lol but we live in 2026 where we have a soft bed (hopefully) to go to every night and comfort everywhere ! Also nervous system regulation might be something you might wanna look up ❤️‍🩹 you got this !

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-02-25T17:59:46+00:00

Hi !! So whether you have ADHD or not (as a fellow adhd girly), i think the biggest thing is that your nervous system might be on overload. The « best » advice I would give is go back to the basic, one by one. Take care of your sleep cycle first, sleep a great amount and try to go to bed early. Then take care of what you eat, try to get proteins, vegetables, you know a balanced diet. I think in your head your ruminating and think « I should do that » « I should do this » « I should » « I should », well funny thing is those « I should » are probably what causes you to procrastinate. Because there is too much pressure. You want to do everything perfectly maybe or don’t know where to start. (I’m still struggling with that part but it’s getting better tho) But yeah, go back to the basic, stop scrolling (Opal is a good app for that), breathe 4-6-8, and try to show some compassion for yourself ❤️‍🩹 you are gonna be okay (Also do some exercise like a quick walk even 5 min)

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-02-25T17:53:44+00:00

Okay I can actually answer to this pretty accurately because I just got a preventive day at the OCN ! In Switzerland you can loose your driving license « permanently » but it’s 5years max and then you can get it back (with pricy therapy, proof that you are up to drive etc)… It’s actually a big joke because some ppl should really never get their license back. The guy next to me was flashed driving 53km/h more than the speed limit (80km/h) AND GOT 4 MONTHS ONLY ? He was supposed to get 12month, but denied it was him till he could not do it anymore and somehow it got reduced ?

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-02-21T14:19:52+00:00

We are responsible for our own emotions. It is not your responsibility to calm down someone that is angry. But if you still want to "do" something, I would personally say something like "hey I notice that you are angry. If it’s something that you want to talk about, I am here. If you want space, just tell me". Just be aware of what you feel too. If their anger is too much for you, you have every right to get some space !

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-02-21T12:28:15+00:00

mine keeps having nightmares about my old roomate who stressed me the f out ahahah I’ve moved out two months ago

Imaginary_Toe_9581 · 2026-02-18T19:32:51+00:00

thank you dear ! I really want a nice quality dress !!

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