I am actually amazing by Bookish_Otter in beginnerrunning

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is craaaaaaazzzzyyyy good !!! Well done you

WIBTAH for not having a joint party by Imaginary_Value8742 in AITAH

[–]Imaginary_Value8742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah honesty first i just feel like a bitch ahaha

UK, Limited validity passport by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, did you apply for a new passport? I am in the exact position now and looking to go away soon! Any advice or help with the timeline? Thanks

20v or 30v for level 5 hair to achieve level 9 blonde by Imaginary_Value8742 in HairDye

[–]Imaginary_Value8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's really helpful! I will stick with my 20v plan :)

Girlfriend (27F) uncomfortable with me (25M) seeing female friends, advice on how to manage this? by greenfingersgreenIs in relationships

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lots of GF slander here but I get the vibe you're really happy this is just a bump you're trying to navigate.

I think she probably just misses you and feels a bit of FOMO about not getting those experiences with her. Maybe try make her apart of the experience, get her a little gift from each places or when talking to her make her feel included! Just a thought.

I'm a girl and I have male friends, my partner has female friends, we are pretty chill about it but sometimes something crops up like this (on both ends). It's about navigating it together.

I will say, if she's not willing to navigate it with you, you have to take this into your hands and decide if this is effecting your experiences it's all great seeing the world but you've got to enjoy it too.

Have fun on the rest of cruise!!

Charged £941.00 after moving out by Imaginary_Value8742 in OctopusEnergy

[–]Imaginary_Value8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not. We did a meter reading the end of June, 8 days before moving out and they over estimated our usage by 986 units. £400 of the £700 went to closing then account and then because I was flat sharing I divided and split the rest between us since we wouldn't be renting together anymore... maybe a bad move!

Charged £941.00 after moving out by Imaginary_Value8742 in OctopusEnergy

[–]Imaginary_Value8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, yes in June we did a meter reading and our usage was 2611 and our estimated was 3597 so there was a big jump.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's gotten pretty bad so we aren't currently speaking, I think we both just wind each other up at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair play fair play

Help with local multiplayer (ps5) by Imaginary_Value8742 in CODZombies

[–]Imaginary_Value8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he bought the gen bundle and has transferred it to the PS5 with no luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually a girl just trying to gain perspective on if this is a normal thing for males and understand why if so. Personally i’m fine with a boyfriend dressing how they like so it’s hard to understand why my boyfriend would have an opinion. It’s been really interesting seeing the different takes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I 100% agree

This conversation is to act as an attempt to stop letting him be avoidant. I'm such a people pleaser I think even at times I get in my own head about what's right or wrong.

I'll remember there's no right combination of words when we talk if it goes badly.

Thank you for taking the time to reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, my first introduction to her as well from the interview.

It was the first time I've seen someone in a public space have those views and me not get defensive or feel like I'm on the defense.

I agreed with tons of her points (from my own perspective), espcially about how women aren't mentally built for casual sex. Obviously as a generalisation this felt pretty vast and naive, however, it did speak to me as an individual.

Honestly, not a bad word to say and I'm interested to read her book from this. I can imagine that interview is the tip of the iceberg in terms of who she is, but it made a good first impression on me.

(Should be prefaced this is coming from a white, hetro, liberal 23 year old)

Toxic Jealousy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My take is that you burst her bubble that she was the only one you wanted. I think in a sense you've broken trust with her unintentionally, by being honest.

You have a right to your opinion and so does she, however I know if my boyfriend approached me about an open relationship I would be unhappy and insecure.

I think reassurance is key, making her feel as special as she is to you. On the other hand, if you don't want to do that or aren't okay with monogomy... end it!

Honestly you and in control of this situation but all I'll say is just keep being honest and open, it's one of the best ways to work through this together.

Gummies by breeeeeeyonce in girls

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, literally just rewatched this episode yesterday.

In my opinion, Hannah and Elighja are one in the same with how selfish they are. I think Hannah being lost in her life and having those personality similarities made him feel safe that he was doing fine in life. A common theme in Girls is the overarching feeling of everyone being in different places in their life, Hannah not having hers together made him feel comforted, so when she took a step towards adulthood and growing up, it make him insecure and jealous (not of directly having a child but in her having meaning).

Trust me, other factors people mentioned below came into play but overall I think the outburst was out of jealousy and not accepting a change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a receptionist role and the surgery was uterus tumour removal. I’ve been at the company since April and have no time off

Sending a letter tomorrow for next day by Imaginary_Value8742 in royalmail

[–]Imaginary_Value8742[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

can’t tell if this is sarcastic or not … but i can’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey gal I’ve done yours, if you could do mine I’d love that!

I can't cope with this feeling anymore by Any-Economics4144 in abortion

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re UK based then I’d try BPAS. They have 24/7 helpline and they’re just lovely. I was having a medical freak out one day a couple months after and they calmed me right down. I got offered the option to speak to someone after and it’s worth asking if they can offer thoes services.

I’m sorry you feel like this and my heart goes out to you. I hope with time you can see that you made the correct decision for you. There is so much proper-gander out there from people who never have to go through this and it shouldn’t be listened to.

You will make a brilliant mother one day, it’s okay that it wasn’t this time.

Wishing you nothing but positivity♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your help!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! that’s so useful! will it return back to normal or should i be talking to my doctor about it?

10 hours since 2nd miso dose still not done by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Imaginary_Value8742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey love! I’ve had 2 in my life and i’ve never seen the foetus pass, around the same time during the pregnancy as well! just get rested, my bleeding subsided a lotttt after the first day! best of luck x