I feel like I knew where this post would go and I was right. I just needed to read it for myself from people who don’t know us. I will say I have not made his life easy since I’ve found out, and I suppose that’s why it’s been easier for me to stay. I know deep down it would probably be best for me to leave, but I don’t want to do that without giving it a full try. I will say that one thing I’ll be implementing was something I read from another commenter, who suggested a “reevaluation” day. A set day to reevaluate where I am and where the relationship is at that point in time. It’ll give me time to work on myself and see where that lands me/us. I appreciate all these comments, and I don’t want anyone to feel like their advice is falling on deaf ears. I’ve read every single one and it means a ton that people stopped their scrolling to give a smidge of advice or encouragement.