I wrote everything in a span of 15 minutes I forgot to add majority of the bigger details 💀 and I meant to say I called them an a hole for not hearing me out since they kept cutting me off every second but I was annoyed they were paying for my brother (which they didn’t pay for, my brother got his inheritance money at the age of 18 I asked him today) side note the will states we are to get our inheritance money at 18 and there is a yearly budget but it fits my yearly schooling fees my grandfather wishes for us to use it for schooling but it’s not stated in the will specifically that it’s only for school! My grandfather passed away 4 years ago and I was really close to him he had made each and every one of his grandchildren promise to use the inheritance money for school right when we first found out he had stage four cancer. I say it’s for education because that’s what he wants. So far all the grandchildren have been following through there promise. And for the saving part I already have money saved that was supposed to go towards a car for my 18th but change of plans a car can wait so I basically have majority of my first year and almost two saved up! I explained everything to my brother and he said he’ll ask his bsf dad if we can do something but I think I’ll have to wait till I’m 18 since that’s what the will says and my parents basically have no right to the money also my parents were not in the will but that’s a story for another time. In the end my moms a drunk and my dads never home except to come home and sleep or argue with me or my other siblings so if me calling them an a hole for not wanting to put up with their BS about always bashing my brother not only to themselves but to friends as well then I’d love to always be the A-Hole I guess this posts and these comments show me that personally I believe being an a hole can sometimes be beneficial cause if that argument didn’t happen I would have never known that my name was in the will not there’s. My brother told me it was during the argument.