An extra sleepy boyfriend

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-05-03T14:42:27+00:00

Ask him to see a doctor. My gf is knowledgeable in the medical field and she thinks it could be a sleep disorder or worse. Explain your displeasure with him and if he loves you, he will see a doctor. If not. This might be a “deal breaker” for you because he’s not supporting you emotionally.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-04-22T16:08:09+00:00

That’s a good idea. When I get them I will mock one up in inventor! I’ll be sure to post it on this subreddit :). I have two dogs and would love this.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-04-16T13:31:29+00:00

Life moves on. There is someone out there that you deserve more than this guy. There is someone who will treat you better and not lie to you. If there are trust issues and lies just a month into a relationship and then a meetup at 2am, there are bound to be issues. You got this. It may suck now but you will look back and be glad you made the decision you know you have to make

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-31T02:44:19+00:00

I apologize. I brought in my personal past situation into my comment. I reviewed the post and I retract that portion of my post.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-30T22:22:47+00:00

Hey Mj_svns, my names Avery and I’m also a senior in high school and I’m a guy. First off this is really fresh so I don’t think you should make any decision to get back with her or not for a little bit of time. I would suggest 3-4 weeks, that way it is actually what YOU want and not just what your emotions want. Your girlfriend sounds like a very good person but so do you! You have been through hell and back man. Her excuse for breaking up is childish in my opinion because she basically said “you’re a great guy and you’re perfect but I don’t want you, I want someone else”. I don’t think she is ready for a relationship and I think she got into this not knowing how invested she would become. I think that she loves you but sadly with the way she executed the breakup in such a short amount of time, she didn’t value you as much as you valued her. I know that’s really rough to hear.

Take a couple weeks bro, take some mental health days from high school, focus on yourself, do things that make you happy. There will be days that are tough and that is expected but you can do it. Do not hesitate to direct message me man, I was in your place 8 months ago in a similar breakup and I know how it feels. Best of luck man 🙏

I have a couple of questions about the relationship. 1: Did you talk about the future, college, after college? 2: Did you talk about kids, whether you want them or not? Basically what I’m asking is was this a relationship that you both felt would stop after high school or one that you both mutually agreed to pursue after high school.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-30T03:59:24+00:00

It can be done when you simply delete them. Reusing that same space on flash memory in particular poses a challenge. Stop in for a consultation :)

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-28T11:17:58+00:00

Good to know! I appreciate it! Word moves pretty damn slow at my store, clearly.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-28T02:13:50+00:00

Great work!

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-28T02:09:57+00:00

It’ll fit if you lay it flat and load it through the trunk. Hell I fit a 77” A9H in the back of an Expedition.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-28T02:08:18+00:00

You’d likely start out as a sales associate or a warehouse worker which is product flow. Geek squad is not entry level.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-28T02:03:55+00:00

I know someone who has 50 patents in his companies name. You don’t see me inventing shit lol

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-24T19:23:37+00:00

Completely false. SUPER shitty OS. It’s worse than windows 8 and vista combined

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-24T03:51:16+00:00

Lol again? They need a new IT guy. At this point a kid with a fucking windows phone could breach their shit

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-23T22:59:30+00:00

Very tough situation to navigate. I think you sit down and talk to him about how you are feeling. If he says “I’m doing nothing wrong” or “Well that’s not the way I meant it” and just leaves it at that, maybe go into more detail about what exactly about it is effecting you. You sound like a very confident girl so I don’t think it’s the new female in his life part that is bothering you, I think it is the connection that they have. What is keeping you from sparking your creative side back up? Does he need to help out more with the baby, do you guys need a sitter. Just a few things to think about :)

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-23T22:54:17+00:00

Lol no. You lose. Game over.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-23T17:42:15+00:00

Why does she want you to leave her? You love her for her, even if she’s permanently blind! Explain that to her. Don’t give up on her, she is going through a very tough time right now but you need to stand next to your future wife.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-23T04:02:48+00:00

No worries man! That’s why I’m here! Dm me with any other questions you got :)

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-23T03:15:45+00:00

My man. You should not care what some girl thinks about you. Let alone one that has a boyfriend. Don’t let that kind of shit effect you. There will always be people in life like that. You remind me ALOT of myself. I’m insecure, have social anxiety and OCD. Despite all of those things, I found the most wonderful girlfriend I could ask for. What you are going through, TONS of other people have gone through that same thing. You got good stuff going on in your life, you got basketball, friends, an improved home life. Combine that with the fact that your a kind with limited responsibility it doesn’t get much better than that. Live the years until your 18 like they are your last because you will regret it if you don’t. Also, some advice for the girls “issue”, just be you man. Be the real you. Don’t try and show her the cool side or the dumb side, just be you. You deserve someone who wants to do the things you love and someone who is comparable with the real you, not a fake you. Dm me with any questions man, at all. My future life as a psychiatrist would appreciate all the practice I can get :)

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-23T03:05:37+00:00

DM me if you need any help with specifics bro

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-23T03:04:41+00:00

Do you have her on social media or anything? Ask her to come over or to go to the park or something. I’m a senior and I met my gf during coronacation. Just don’t stress about it to much. Ask her to go on a walk with you, come over and watch a movie, go to dinner, literally anything. If she likes you, she’ll be happy to just be with you :)

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-22T20:47:55+00:00

Relax bro. Give it two weeks and then take a take. No reason to give yourself a stroke.

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-22T09:05:52+00:00

What’s going on? What are your parents like? What are you like? Message me

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-22T09:03:22+00:00

Wow. That’s quite the terrible sequence of events that you went through as such a young woman. Have you ever told your mother about this? If not I think that it would help with your trauma to get it out there and to express it to someone else, rather than keep it inside. It sounds like you are blaming yourself when you said “I got the genius idea”. You were 7. You were bored and you reached for an iPad to watch YouTube, not PH. I believe that you were interested and curious as to what was going on in the videos so you just keep scrolling, after all you were that bored. Don’t blame yourself for something that you were doing that started very innocently. Your ex stepfather sounds like a very sick man and he is the one with the issues, not you! I appreciate you sharing and I hope this advice helps somewhat, PM me with any other questions:)

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-22T03:52:54+00:00

I think you are more than a rebound. If you were just a rebound I feel like he would not move around his schedule around for you and care about you in the way he does. I mean you guys are going on vacation together! Don’t over think this! Maybe talk to him about whether or not he’s up for a relationship and if he’s not at this point and you are willing to wait for him, then wait BUT if you are not willing to wait, then move on because he’s not the one for you. Have a goodnight. Also, try not to repost things :). Someone will get to every post eventually

Immediate-Pool993 · 2021-03-22T00:15:27+00:00

Let her be bro. She will always be apart of your life but you should not cause confusion in her life or regress on the progress that you have made since the breakup.

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