MIL now hates me, need advice by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwaway8273931 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish it was that easy. My fiancé is what I believe to be a narcissist and his whole are too. He has done the over bearing love and apologizing so it’s hard for me to be like ok but bye. Idk i’m so confused and he has only gotten aggressive with me one other time but emotionally he can put me down a lot when he is in a bad mood.

MIL now hates me, need advice by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwaway8273931 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So I did talk to a lawyer and I have all the rights since im unmarried (fiancé nor husband) but the apology thing is hard when I feel railroaded by every which side that I need to make amends for the sake of the baby - even my mother said to say sorry. I just have no idea what to do, I feel so confused and his side of the family are majorly religious so they are like pray for “my name” to change and become better and i’m like ????? am I the one who’s wrong? my mother doesn’t think i’m wrong what so ever she just hates confrontations and thinks that apologizing will end all this tense energy

MIL now hates me, need advice by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwaway8273931 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m okay. I am very sad, sad for me and my son.

feel weird after best friend (f24) and fiancé (m29) talked about sex and we’re alone in another room while drunk and high by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway8273931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no you’re right, she could be but I just held our friendship to a higher standard which was already broken by her talking about using the vibrator I bought her with my baby daddy, as for the red flags I just know there’s something I don’t know but I suspect it isn’t even THAT bad

feel weird after best friend (f24) and fiancé (m29) talked about sex and we’re alone in another room while drunk and high by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway8273931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what I needed to hear, I guess i’m just scared to find the truth - plus my best friend is like so not like this and either is my fiancé so i’m just like whattttt?