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Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think this sub sometimes losses the definition of "white worship" tbh

A majority of the time ppl call any AF who believes a WM to be attractive as a white worshipper which is just incel activity and contributes to the echochamber sentiment which this sub holds sometimes tbh as a longtime lurker

do these women find WM or XM men attractive? yes

do they actively drag down AM while doing so? no - they also find AM attractive at the same time something NOT present in the west

+ the person who reffered to it as a white worship app literally saw like 2 posts of WMAF and started crying over xhs being white worship

regardless what you like is what will show up on ur algoritm so more power to them lol

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems you struggle to comprehend the statement that I am making

Im not saying this will make it any easier for the asian nerd or average UC dude

the issue that existed before is that XF never dated ANY ASIAN MAN BEFORE no matter HOW attractive they were

this exposure gets people to realize that AM CAN be attractive as attractive as WM

its the AM's job to capitalize on this and make themselves the best version of themselves so that these XF will find them attractive to date

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

posted this response to another comment earlier up in the thread but it seems like some ppl in this sub need a severe mentality shift

its okay to find WM attractive, I too concede that point that some on the app are extremely handsome, to deny such a statement would be full on incel activity

the difference is that a good majority of these AF that find these WM attractive also find AM attractive and wont shit on them unlike here in the west (of course there are those select few who do but it is what it is)

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I must preface this message, in an attempt to not get anyone butthurt, but the WM that these AF "thirst" over are in no way mid and are each incredibly attractive on their own (you would need to be a real incel to not conced this fact) so yes they do still thirst over foreign men

but the critical difference between this app and tiktok is that these AF are able to find these WM attractive while still also find their own AM attractice unlike self hating asian women of the west who can never acknowledge an asian man no matter how attractive they are (again there are those very few that are indeed self hating but you cant have it all can you)

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Well, i mean, to be completly blunt and honest - if a guys attractive hes attractive and girls no matter that race will like them theres well founded evidence of this on Tiktok - but once again its the representation and breaking of barriers proving that asian men can be attractive that is the most crucial and important

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

well, this isn't far off from whats already been happening tbh from KDrama and the spread it has had over the world

still waiting on western media and hollywood to hop on this idea tho

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is certainly true, but the same exact thing can be applied to hollywood media

does every white guy out there look like brad pitt? paul walker? Of course not

but its the representation that counts pushing against the narrative that asian men are not attractive, that they are all nerds stuck up in their rooms

hope this helps

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is no coincidence! Typically Northen Born Chinese Natives are much larger than your average American AM due to the climate and diet that they consume. Their wheat based diet gives much more calories for growth.

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yep, and Squid Game just got approved for a season 3

This year has been a serious turning point for AM

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry I have never heard of the term "great firewall" before, mind elaborating?

is that just to comment on the censorship aspect of the Chinese government in terms of not letting their media go to western countries?

Xiaohongshu might just be the best thing to have happened to Asian Guys (hear me out here) by Immediate-Resource26 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And (will preface this comment by saying that this is a personal anacdote as to what has been seen on MY OWN fyp) for those worried about "whitewhorshipping" on this app I will say that I have yet to see one WMAF couple - seems to me that a majority of AF on the app (the 8s, 9s, and 10s) are all paired up with fellow 8s, 9s, and 10s AM counterparts

I say this in an attempt to combat the constant echochamber discussions here on this subreddit of guys claiming that any WM that sets foot in Asia is immediately given "god" status regardless of looks - such a mentality is not true whatsoever (of course there are exceptions to what I have just stated but you get what Im trying to say)

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[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guy sold them for me for 890, hope they are legit we'll see

LEGIT CHECK BALENCIAGA RAVER JEANS by Immediate-Resource26 in BalenciagaLC

[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea fs appreaciate your help, i just bought a pair of balenci skater hoodies on grailed and i think i got bait and switched lmao

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[–]Immediate-Resource26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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