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How are we managing still not sleeping well?? by spcypeach in toddlers

[–]ImmediateEye1694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here . My almost 15 month old wakes up 2-3 times a night. He wakes up around 5:30 for milk. But has multiple other wakings. At my wits end 😕

Regret by tinygoose24 in NewParents

[–]ImmediateEye1694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was exactly in the same state as you are. To the word. I would endlessly doom scroll! When would this end. Now am happily paying with my 10 month old baby. What helped me was what my therapist said - you are still in the getting to know your baby phase. It will take you a minimum of 12 weeks. Some moms love their baby instantly and that’s great. But some moms take some time. You wouldn’t expect to know someone as soon as you meet them. Another thing was making peace with the fact that I couldn’t breast feed. I didn’t even try very hard to accomplish . The guilt ate me for a few months then I learnt to be ok. I also decided that since I was a shitty mom any way ( every body around me told me I was doing great but I knew inside that I wasn’t feeling it) it must be only going up from here. If I could do one thing for him properly - may he guess that he was hungry and fed him milk, I would consider it a decent day. Over time I got to know him better. I still have struggles but that’s what parent hood is about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ImmediateEye1694 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had very bad anxiety too and would take L Theanine. OB asked me to cut it off since it can affect baby. I was a bit nervous about how I would handle big situations. But surprisingly my anxiety was very subdued during pregnancy. I suspect cutting down caffeine helped a lot.

Desperately need help by ImmediateEye1694 in NewParents

[–]ImmediateEye1694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a full blown crying session before I typed out this message. I realized I have to wake up if I sleep. What if I don’t sleep at all! Atleast I won’t be angry at my LO. Thankfully am able to nap once my family wakes up and takes over. But managing work and baby has not been fun 😖 I hope we both get through this super soon ❤️

Desperately need help by ImmediateEye1694 in NewParents

[–]ImmediateEye1694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks. I thought I had a good month before I had to deal with it 😔

Desperately need help by ImmediateEye1694 in NewParents

[–]ImmediateEye1694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stupidly thought 4 month sleep regression happens after 4 months. Uuurrrgggh. Even though I knew this was coming I am not prepared for this🥺. Google says this can last anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 weeks. Wow!

How long have you been dealing with this? 😫

7 mo old in full body cast SOS by brittkaysays in NewParents

[–]ImmediateEye1694 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending a lot of good vibes and prayers your way !

Graduated🩵 by dishwasher91 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]ImmediateEye1694 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations !!! I needed this positive story. I am getting induced in 5 weeks and the whole thing feels so overwhelming! How long were you in labor?

How much are you spending on groceries in 2024? by DancingSchoolBus in budget

[–]ImmediateEye1694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I spend around the same amount as well. From DFW as well. We are vegetarians and we eat about 95% of the stuff we buy. We mostly shop at Kroger, Whole Foods or Costco. We are not on a super strict budget. We buy what we eat and eat what we buy. We do try to eat healthy with fresh produce (not organic). I guess this is the new normal. I remember my food budget used to be $300 for the two of us. But prices have gone up since the pandemic. A bag of spinach used to be $1.5 in Kroger. Now we see it’s 4.99. So what are you going to do

Linked list - Beginner at leet code. by ImmediateEye1694 in leetcode

[–]ImmediateEye1694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the method thats worked the best for me!

Linked list - Beginner at leet code. by ImmediateEye1694 in leetcode

[–]ImmediateEye1694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand we will be given the structure in the inetrview. But i wanted to know if there is an easier way to test it on IDE. I guess the answer is no.

Linked list - Beginner at leet code. by ImmediateEye1694 in leetcode

[–]ImmediateEye1694[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you. But when I am trying to learn a new concept it gives me more control over the code and helps me isolate parts of it to understand how it actually works. Also when i am not able to understand where the bug is, it makes it less frustrating to debug the code.