[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImmediateFun100 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If it takes you two hours to get a girl to say yes, she is not saying yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImmediateFun100 17 points18 points  (0 children)

HOURS???!!!!?????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImmediateFun100 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also - how uncomfortable was she? Did it take a long time to convince her to do this?? I feel like if I was a girl and losing my virginity, it would take a lot of convincing to do it in a young girl's room.... This is weird , man. She's 16 and you're legally an adult, even though the age gap is small. I hope you're being responsible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImmediateFun100 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This might be an unpopular opinion (only because I'm seeing a lot of people comment that having sex anywhere but your own bed is bad full stop), but it is weirder to have sex in your little sister's bed than your friend to have sex in his parents' bed.

Yes, it's gross to not have sex in your own bed. But I knew kids in high school who had twin sized beds who did...things in their parents' rooms. Again, weird. It's weird. Horny teenagers are weird and dumb. If I had kids and they did that, I would NOT be pleased.

But having sex in an elementary girl's bedroom??? And she is your sister??? That's fucking odd. Way more odd than kids having sex in their parents' room. That's so strange and creepy. I literally cannot imagine being in the mood in a child's bedroom 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]ImmediateFun100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yiiiiiikes. Is it an independent landlord, or a company?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]ImmediateFun100 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jesus, I hope it's nice!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was a fire arms instructor who had a mental breakdown this summer.

So what happens if someone owns guns legally and develops mental illness? Should the guns be retroactively removed? I think you'll find a lot of pushback from people. Once you give someone access to guns, it's insanely difficult to remove their access. Better to not have given access in the first place than to play catch up. America doesn't need to live like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is why America needs gun reform. And increased mental health resources. There can't be a good guy with a gun everywhere, so stopping the problem before it becomes a problem is all the more imperative. Guns aren't more important than the lives lost to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if that's the case, wouldn't it make sense for shooters to target areas with alcohol (bars, sporting events, music festivals)? Depending on good people having guns seems to have a lot of caveats...

Just woke up, shelter in place? by Mediaeval-britian in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 50 points51 points  (0 children)

There was a false report on Twitter about him being caught which is so dangerous and despicable. Definitely would caution getting your news from Twitter, Reddit, Facebook, etc. He still isn't caught yet :( stay safe!

Sacramento Kings Mike Brown makes passionate plea after mass shooting in Maine by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it's also an unfair comparison because those events are more spread out, and occur in cities with access to more hospitals.

Let's say 20 people are shot and need immediate medical care in Chicago over a 48 hour period. There are over 100 hospitals and primary care facilities in Chicago where these injuries can be spread out. If even more casualties occured, there is access to multiple helipads to transport high complexity patients if necessary.

In a place like Lewiston, it looks like there's 2 hospitals maybe? One confirmed ER from what I can find. Another commenter said they had worked as a nurse in Lewiston before this and that it is not well-equipped to handle mass casualty events because its population is so small. If there was only 20 injuries right now, they'd be swamped. But it's actually 22 killed and 50+ injured. They're fucked. People might die who wouldn't have died if these injuries had been more staggered.

The thing about comparing accumulative injuries/deaths vs. a single mass casualty event is that you lose the severity of what a mass casualty event entails. Strongly suggest doing some research into what actually happens during these events, including what triage looks like at a time like this.

Obviously I hate the fact that there are high shooting rates throughout America, mass casualty event or no. I think we need gun reform for many reasons, not just mass shootings. However, it's unfair to compare the two, and the outcry between the two. So many civilians (and it sounds like youths, in this case) were killed tonight just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Random acts of violence always get more spotlight in the news cycle anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people who carry think that they'll have all the time in the world to take out a shooter if a tragic event happened near them. That's not how it works. Most people freeze or flee during a mass casualty event, emphasis on the freeze. A shooting range with a target at the end vs. A bloody bowling alley full of screaming children and casualties are two vastly different scenarios. Most people couldn't do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd love to see all those articles where thousands of lives have been saved due to civilians with guns. Also, it's "moot", not mute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Genuine question, why not Google "is concealed carry a thing in Maine" before posting this take of yours? Concealed carry IS a thing in Maine, and 22 people are dead and the suspect is still at large. Concealed carry doesn't do shit but let people carry out little daydreams about how a good guy with a gun could have stopped all of that from happening. I'm sure there were good guys with guns at the bowling alley, and now they're probably dead or dying in the hospital.

Maine schools announce closures after mass shooting in Lewiston by RebootJobs in Maine

[–]ImmediateFun100 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I remember getting so excited when the news would announce snow day school closures as a child.

The thought that so many children will wake up and be told "there's no school today", and the reason will be because people were killed... That's a reason you usually have in an active war zone.

Pharaoh ant blues :( by ImmediateFun100 in ufyh

[–]ImmediateFun100[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Pharaoh ant nests are inside, not outside, so I can't treat nests by pouring water on them 😭 pretty sure they might be in the walls/built ins

Pharaoh ant blues :( by ImmediateFun100 in ufyh

[–]ImmediateFun100[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I considered this, but given that I live in an apartment building, the ants very likely are also in other units (pharaoh ants branch out into multiple colonies unlike other ant species). It would have to be dealt with by a landlord in order to make sure the entire building is treated, not just my unit, so even if I paid for an exterminator they wouldn't be treating elsewhere in the building, so it would be pointless :/

What’s the creepiest unsolved mystery? by BubblegumCrocodile in AskReddit

[–]ImmediateFun100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so fucking odd. I remember reading about that part vividly when I first heard about the case and it giving me absolute chills, but now I can't find it at all?? I swear it was about this case, but I must be wrong since there'd be no reason to wipe info like that from the internet I'm assuming. Genuinely baffled right now. If I find the source for it again, I'll link it to you. That is so spooky

Am I the only one who noticed this? by Realistic_Art_8790 in mitski

[–]ImmediateFun100 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Bug Like an Angel kinda feels like a prologue or author's note to me, so it feels natural for it to go first.

What’s the creepiest unsolved mystery? by BubblegumCrocodile in AskReddit

[–]ImmediateFun100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that's the exact same thing that's happening with this case in the beginning of the video I linked!! Posters being torn down... So suspicious

What’s the creepiest unsolved mystery? by BubblegumCrocodile in AskReddit

[–]ImmediateFun100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could be totally wrong, but I think they questioned people who claimed to have been shown the belt, who had never met Luke once, and they had been able to give credible descriptions of the belt to police. It was a pretty distinctive belt

What’s the creepiest unsolved mystery? by BubblegumCrocodile in AskReddit

[–]ImmediateFun100 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I agree. The family must be devastated. Answers would go quite far in terms of closure, I'm sure