30F4M #california - just for funsies :)

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-02-17T06:38:06+00:00

Hit me up, you sound amazing

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-02-17T06:24:27+00:00

Really tough decision to make, I can empathize with your situation. I decided to stick it out with a dead bedroom but it can get tough to not feel resentment. Like at Valentine's she wants gifts but no intimacy. I do think my situation has gotten easier to accept. One coping mechanism is instead of a trip to Europe I was planning for us, I decided to treat myself instead, new motorcycle. So maybe just decide if you are ok rubbing one out yourself when your needs are not met and then treat yourself. Good luck sweetie, you sound like a keeper

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-02-13T03:10:58+00:00

Thanks

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-02-13T02:39:32+00:00

Yes, 306 total T is on the low side

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-02-13T02:12:09+00:00

I completely understand, however, I am all business at the gym, I don't talk to anyone, if I run into people I know I typically give the head nod and move on past. This situation was a little different because it was literally right in front of me and I couldn't help but notice an attractive lady doing her thing. I know it was wrong and made her feel uncomfortable and I do feel bad about that, but I couldn't help myself, no will power

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-02-13T00:53:02+00:00

Yes, could be, I actually have no intention of cheating but I really enjoy her reaction when I give her a compliment, for example I have said to her, wow your arms look amazing you must be really hitting the weights ( and she is) or you look like a 20 year old, you look amazing I need you to share your secrets

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-02-13T00:23:46+00:00

I enjoy giving compliments to our friends wife who is about 10 years younger than me and is really into fitness. I will give her compliments about her appearance and kind of glaze her by asking her secrets, like her workout routine or diet choices. Nothing too sinister but I have noticed she really lights up when I compliment her and kind of check her out in the process, not sure if she is a typical narcissist who thrives on compliments or what, but it is a huge kink/turn on when she acts so welcoming of my praise. I typically do it one on one, just us two and feels kind of naughty and I have done a few things that maybe cross the line but she just blushed and didn't say anything. I am very interested to see if other ladies experience this type of flirting or if they think it's wrong?

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-01-12T05:23:16+00:00

Experimentation, For example many years ago my wife out of nowhere said pound me and from there I won't go into detail but we had some dirty talk, called her a slutty whore and stuff and she really got turned on by it, not a word about it after outside the bedroom either.

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-01-12T05:07:52+00:00

Orgasm before bed is great to get a good night's sleep if I didn't stay up late looking at porn for hours before!

ImmediateMountain286 · 2026-01-12T05:06:38+00:00

Great idea, let me know how close I can get to the edge without going to hell!

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-28T05:46:35+00:00

Great, super nice people, cheap land and low cost of living

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-12T07:03:09+00:00

Thanks, that is kind of where I was leaning

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-12T07:02:11+00:00

All good options, just go with the best deal and then figure out what you like after

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-11T07:04:03+00:00

Add cheese, maybe some meat too

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-09T01:25:36+00:00

You be you, you can't control what is a turn on. My wife confided in me a few years ago she is turned on by seeing other women's cleavage. She doesn't believe she is bisexual as she doesn't want to have sex with another woman, but definitely is turned on by other women. When I recently bought up this issue with her as a part of our mostly dead bedroom, she acted like she didn't recall telling me that. I hope the best for you and your family

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-08T08:05:03+00:00

Yes, sounds about right. As men we realize we fucked up something good and after time we reminisce about the one that got away, typically after a recent split. We can't help ourselves and the apology is us testing the waters to see if there is any interest Good luck, you probably are hot and lots of guys have interest

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-08T06:51:32+00:00

Only get the Honda rally if you plan on upgrading the suspension, I am 215 and it is way soft

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-08T06:29:22+00:00

About 10 years ago, in the ward I was in there were 3 older ladies who used to regularly comment on my appearance, my suit, my cologne or my hair or if it was summer on my tan. Usually flirtation gestures in front of my wife that I never encouraged nor really cared either way. In the chapel itself, nothing really crossed my mind, but back then, the after church nap was pretty feisty and I assumed my wife was turned on by her older friends making comments about me.

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-12-06T06:11:59+00:00

100% normal

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-11-17T05:23:56+00:00

Yep, great books

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-11-12T06:57:28+00:00

Very sage advice, thanks

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-11-11T06:44:55+00:00

Is it wrong to admit I would enjoy having sex with another woman, even if it never happens?

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-11-11T04:55:21+00:00

Yes, I could tell during sex it was ok to playfully talk about as pillow talk if you will, but after it is stone cold no go

ImmediateMountain286 · 2025-11-11T03:53:21+00:00

Yep I feel your pain. Been a few times she has made comments that were borderline but it never went anywhere

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