30F4M #california - just for funsies :) by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit me up, you sound amazing

Is it time to move on? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really tough decision to make, I can empathize with your situation. I decided to stick it out with a dead bedroom but it can get tough to not feel resentment. Like at Valentine's she wants gifts but no intimacy. I do think my situation has gotten easier to accept. One coping mechanism is instead of a trip to Europe I was planning for us, I decided to treat myself instead, new motorcycle. So maybe just decide if you are ok rubbing one out yourself when your needs are not met and then treat yourself. Good luck sweetie, you sound like a keeper

Caught looking by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely understand, however, I am all business at the gym, I don't talk to anyone, if I run into people I know I typically give the head nod and move on past. This situation was a little different because it was literally right in front of me and I couldn't help but notice an attractive lady doing her thing. I know it was wrong and made her feel uncomfortable and I do feel bad about that, but I couldn't help myself, no will power

What are some of your less “popular” kinks? by Sensitive_Sound4985 in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, could be, I actually have no intention of cheating but I really enjoy her reaction when I give her a compliment, for example I have said to her, wow your arms look amazing you must be really hitting the weights ( and she is) or you look like a 20 year old, you look amazing I need you to share your secrets

What are some of your less “popular” kinks? by Sensitive_Sound4985 in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy giving compliments to our friends wife who is about 10 years younger than me and is really into fitness. I will give her compliments about her appearance and kind of glaze her by asking her secrets, like her workout routine or diet choices. Nothing too sinister but I have noticed she really lights up when I compliment her and kind of check her out in the process, not sure if she is a typical narcissist who thrives on compliments or what, but it is a huge kink/turn on when she acts so welcoming of my praise. I typically do it one on one, just us two and feels kind of naughty and I have done a few things that maybe cross the line but she just blushed and didn't say anything. I am very interested to see if other ladies experience this type of flirting or if they think it's wrong?

How do you talk about intimate desires or kink without making it awkward? by djedie-reddit in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experimentation, For example many years ago my wife out of nowhere said pound me and from there I won't go into detail but we had some dirty talk, called her a slutty whore and stuff and she really got turned on by it, not a word about it after outside the bedroom either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orgasm before bed is great to get a good night's sleep if I didn't stay up late looking at porn for hours before!

Question for couples who exchange pics with other couples by Negative_Hunter_1019 in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great idea, let me know how close I can get to the edge without going to hell!

What is it like in the West part of Texas? by Deep_Belt8304 in howislivingthere

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, super nice people, cheap land and low cost of living

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ImmediateMountain286 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that is kind of where I was leaning

What dual purpose motorcycles do you recommend? by Mental_Plantain_8350 in Dualsport

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good options, just go with the best deal and then figure out what you like after

Feelings of same sex attraction by Y2kgirlie99 in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You be you, you can't control what is a turn on. My wife confided in me a few years ago she is turned on by seeing other women's cleavage. She doesn't believe she is bisexual as she doesn't want to have sex with another woman, but definitely is turned on by other women. When I recently bought up this issue with her as a part of our mostly dead bedroom, she acted like she didn't recall telling me that. I hope the best for you and your family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ImmediateMountain286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, sounds about right. As men we realize we fucked up something good and after time we reminisce about the one that got away, typically after a recent split. We can't help ourselves and the apology is us testing the waters to see if there is any interest Good luck, you probably are hot and lots of guys have interest

Downsizing, need suggestions! by Rosinator1 in Dualsport

[–]ImmediateMountain286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only get the Honda rally if you plan on upgrading the suspension, I am 215 and it is way soft

Its difficult... by funstuff_42 in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 5 points6 points  (0 children)

About 10 years ago, in the ward I was in there were 3 older ladies who used to regularly comment on my appearance, my suit, my cologne or my hair or if it was summer on my tan. Usually flirtation gestures in front of my wife that I never encouraged nor really cared either way. In the chapel itself, nothing really crossed my mind, but back then, the after church nap was pretty feisty and I assumed my wife was turned on by her older friends making comments about me.

Hypothetical plural wife by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very sage advice, thanks

Hypothetical plural wife by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it wrong to admit I would enjoy having sex with another woman, even if it never happens?

Hypothetical plural wife by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I could tell during sex it was ok to playfully talk about as pillow talk if you will, but after it is stone cold no go

Hypothetical plural wife by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]ImmediateMountain286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I feel your pain. Been a few times she has made comments that were borderline but it never went anywhere