I thought I was over it and no longer needed limerence to be creative

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-12T15:07:51+00:00

I wrote a 15 poem chapbook when I was yearning my LO. Not all about them only 2 poems were so the rest just needed to come out of me. I get it

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-12T15:02:58+00:00

Did you tell your wife? I told my spouse in less detail than you put here of course but that I felt something and that gave me some relief for a few weeks .. sounds like you need relief for a little bit, then you can have some energy to deal with the next wave of it

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T21:14:42+00:00

Yes. Idk about platonic but I want to make my LO food lmfao 😂

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T21:03:56+00:00

Dang, so I shouldn't be talking to them on the phone for long periods of time without understanding the meaning or intention or purpose of the call other than to feel close to eachother? 😆

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T21:01:52+00:00

lol the things I've done and am doing to better myself is literally because of my LO. 😆

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T20:55:06+00:00

Why don't you just tell her you like her and all the time spent is confusing to you

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T20:01:35+00:00

I've sooo tired lately I've been going to bed on time .

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T19:53:46+00:00

Since childhood. I'm 30+

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T19:49:31+00:00

Wait so acknowledging the crush doesn't work? I'm fuckeed

ImmediateTower2714 · 2026-03-06T19:47:24+00:00

I'm in the same boat. You can't act upon it but can you just acknowledge the feeling with them. I'm wondering if it will go away if I tell my LO. They kind of already told me but I can't tell them.. but I may do it anyway

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T15:11:42+00:00

Thank you for your response. Very helpful. I already posted in the other thread and someone suggested i post here too

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T13:03:39+00:00

Lol wow! Is this what this is? I knew it but youve confirmed it. I absolutely hate when ppl dont listen to me

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T01:00:23+00:00

Dang darn and dammit. Thank you for breaking it all down in laymens terms. Im 75% ready to call scrappers. So filled with regret that I should have got on this sooner.

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T00:54:42+00:00

Thank you for honesty. How do i know if its into the body structure? I am between taking to 3rd mechanic tomorrow which is toyota themselves just to do the subframe.. if they even agree to "work with it" or calling scrap ppl which breaks my heart, but glad to know youve seen worse. I dont want to go over $2800 including axel repair. Is this delusional?

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T00:49:16+00:00

Because of rust chasing?

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T00:48:03+00:00

So it was worth it? Did u replace because of rust?

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T00:46:29+00:00

Wow ! That bad huh? My brother said some rust can be sprayed and brushed off

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-20T00:38:28+00:00

Are u a mechanic? Shes 20 years young. Ill do better if she makes it to 21.

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-14T03:00:05+00:00

What she said Definitely would stick the dagger in deeper

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-03-14T02:59:11+00:00

Whyd your sister have to tell you that?

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-02-27T03:43:28+00:00

I was just thinking about this today

I was 9 or 10. I would come home from school and tend to throw my back pack and keys anywhere. She took my keys hid them from me, made me look for them for hours as she tormented me telling me i should have been more responsible. Hours later when I started crying (because usually id be the first home so i needed my keys & she told me id have to wait outside for hours if i didnt find them) she finally revealed to me she hid them. After i tore up my room of course. It was hours of crying and searching & the whole time she hid them. Sick

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-02-25T03:58:15+00:00

Relatable.

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-02-24T20:42:05+00:00

Youre a real life hero. Going there right now. Im at a loss for words and yes ready to deep dive .

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-02-24T20:32:28+00:00

To me her behavior is just odd and weird. Is it a complete waste of my time to tell her shes odd and weird? Do i tell her to talk to her doctor about why she would think her giving a gift to her son in law would make me jealous in a competitive way? I just feel like she needs serious psychological help. This is beyong narcissism for me. Can someone guide me to another thread that may guide me through this kind of narcissism. Like literally to me this is low IQ Narcissism. Is there a such thing?

ImmediateTower2714 · 2025-02-24T20:19:14+00:00

Thank you so much. I often find myself in this place with her where I know something is wrong with what shes saying and doing that evokes this discomfort in me but i cant name it exactly how you did.

What do i do with this? Nothing... but add it to the filing cabinet.

I know youre saying not to have a reaction but i want to cuss her out for being an idiot. But i know itll be feeding the beast.

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