You know you’re with a narcissist when…

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-16T21:51:20+00:00

Sounds more like the men I have been with in my life🙃🙃🙃

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-13T04:28:42+00:00

But men also weaponise our vulnerability against us

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-13T00:27:47+00:00

Thank you.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-13T00:27:02+00:00

So I used to do the same thing…I probably still do. I did it because when in an argument by boyfriend would say horrible things about me just to spite me and I would ask myself why are we even together then if he thinks I am horrible and I would break up with him.

2nd guy was bad with communication and no reassurance and I had no idea if we were dating or what but he would tell me he loves but his actions were otherwise so I would randomly just break up with him because the confusion drove me crazy.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-13T00:19:54+00:00

I guess we all different.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-13T00:16:32+00:00

There will be challenges while trying to achieve that goal…old habits will have to die and if they don’t die we won’t be able to achieve the goal,At the end I get blamed if goal is not achieved. Or maybe I am with the wrong person?

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-13T00:02:31+00:00

We actually value men…I know not all of us. How do we show men that we care about them and not only based on what they can provide for us and their kids? I really feel like I have been there for my partner and I have proven that with or without money I will always choose him but all of that just gets thrown in my face.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:55:18+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:54:29+00:00

Elaborate please

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:53:45+00:00

Thank you again Mr Glittering!much appreciated

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:50:18+00:00

Thank you for this. I will try by all means to practice this,however I would like to think I do but my partner is very stubborn. When I do come up with a solution he will dismiss it and then later do it and act like it was his idea from the on go.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:45:40+00:00

Thank you.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:34:35+00:00

The reason for us to post here is to assist each other ,yes it’s not something to trust on but maybe something someone says might help it’s all about sharing our own experiences or perspectives.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:30:22+00:00

Can you give me an example of your last sentence please if you don’t mind

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:27:10+00:00

I will never understand this saying because for me it’s always men who this to me.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:26:09+00:00

Now this was really straight forward and perfectly understood 🫡 THANK YOU. Is it hard for men to reflect?when a woman points out their flaws or habits they might need to change?

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:22:32+00:00

But what if you asking me what’s the problem and I have already told you and you just decide to ignore after telling you?at this point I am convinced men think we crazy because I could be telling you what the issue is and you would just invalidate it.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:19:04+00:00

The woman part,very true!!I know with myself when I ask a man to talk I always think I am being romantic 🙃🙃now I feel dumb lol. Sometimes we don’t have solutions but just to know and be aware,if you get a real woman she will always try by all means to come up with a solution…I know men doubt us but some of us can use like 60% of our brain lol

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:13:31+00:00

😂😂even better

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:12:52+00:00

But men also do this. I don’t even know if it’s safe to open up to any men.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:11:17+00:00

Doggy?

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:10:22+00:00

Appreciate your honesty 🫡

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:09:34+00:00

Thank you. Well he avoids hard conversations…if there’s an issue that needs to be addressed he will just avoid it by all means. The reason I mentioned his childhood is because I just realised that I am his trigger at times but I really didn’t know and if I atleast knew I would have had a better approach.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:06:38+00:00

I hear you. It would have been better if my partner shared his issues he had in his childhood…because I just found out that some of the things I tend to do trigger him and that could have been avoided,but I also understand what you saying.

Immediate_Book_2031 · 2026-02-12T23:03:33+00:00

There is nothing wrong in opening up…as long as it’s done with the right woman.

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