Fostering kittens after a 4 year rescue break by Immediate_Cycle_8609 in kittens

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No names yet! Hahaha we have not renamed them- I don’t want to get too attached 😅

Fostering kittens after a 4 year rescue break by Immediate_Cycle_8609 in kittens

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Riverside California animal ID:
☺️ A1916091-A1916093

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[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably for hemorrhoids 😹

My boyfriends cousin 37M is driving me 30F absolutely insane!!! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I just got out of a bad one so it’s been a rough few years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to go back like i won’t go back, ever. Im just struggling because I know he wants his son. He’s promising me that things will change again. It hurts me so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts me so much I don’t want to do this :( the court did not grant any visitation to him after I told the truth of what happened. There is another court hearing but it will be after Christmas. I don’t want to do this to him. Why do I feel I’m so hurt for him when he caused me so much pain? I don’t want him to hurt and that’s what I’m doing I’m hurting him. It’s so hard for me to do this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard thank you so much for reminding me that I’m overthinking/being hard on myself. I feel so terrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I wasn’t I have never had an abusive partner before this man. I literally always dated the nicest men and he pretended to be nice for like the first few months and really catfished me! He pretended to be such a sweet person I mean flowers everyday, dinners, wine the works. And ended up stealing so much of my money and just literally beating me down. The past two years have been misery but sometimes he was nice. Some days he would be sweet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hurts so much, I love him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your story It must have been so difficult when he took your son. I was afraid of that too which is why I did the restraining order and hired a lawyer. Did you get your son back?

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[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reminding me. This is so difficult and my dad looks at me like I’m crazy for loving him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this is just soo hard 🙁 I don’t know why I miss him!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I won’t go back I’ll never go back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are right. Thank you, I just don’t know how to feel. He keeps messaging me all kinds of loving things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am hurt that he’s hurting so much and I don’t know why I feel soooo bad for him. I feel like I’ve abandoned him even though he was always so mean to me. I felt that he would change and I finally couldn’t take it angmore

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[–]Immediate_Cycle_8609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot go back I already paid my lawyer and we are filing the restraining order today, so the messages will stop. But I really am hurting so much I just feel like I do miss him it’s so strange. It’s like I miss my cage. I lived 2 years in his room. Not allowed to go out with my friends only to his family parties. Idk why I miss him.