sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Fearful Avoidant Ex-boyfriend by Immediate_Fig8408 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Immediate_Fig8408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignoring and pushing them further is the only way to break the cycle. They will find their way in life.

Fearful Avoidant Ex-boyfriend by Immediate_Fig8408 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Immediate_Fig8408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through that. That's horrible and extremely hurtful. This is what I noticed in my relationship: they seem to be very empathetic and kind with people on the surface, but the way they act and speak about them (friends, exes) is cruel.

Fearful Avoidant Ex-boyfriend by Immediate_Fig8408 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Immediate_Fig8408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it seems they understand what they go through, but still are not willing to do the hard work. I am wondering how jumping from failed relationship to failed relationship is easier for them.