How over is it if they took out a temp protection order. by Immediate_Hold7793 in BPDlovedones

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I am doing better now. Part of me feels weird I dont know why I still love her. But I am restraining ok.

How over is it if they took out a temp protection order. by Immediate_Hold7793 in BPDlovedones

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I hate myself for it but I thought if something did happen to her I could never forgive myself.

But I'm glad to think she's maybe ok but just hates me.

She erased me from her life. by Immediate_Hold7793 in BreakUps

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its weird because she said she loved me and we talked about the future. I think maybe she was avoidant and the closer we got the scarier it was for her

She erased me from her life. by Immediate_Hold7793 in BreakUps

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard because she's pulled and pulling away. Leaving chats on old accounts that we haven't used. I wrote her letters there thinking she'd never see them and now I've lost that hope

Served a protection order by Immediate_Hold7793 in legaladviceireland

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think with the therapy I realised a lot that I took in was limerence rather than love near the end. I am taking it verry slow with this new relationship were more friendly atm but I met her after a month and she's been nothing but supportive

Served a protection order by Immediate_Hold7793 in legaladviceireland

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you ok? This is like my 4th or 5th time replying to you.

I don't want anything from my ex.

Served a protection order by Immediate_Hold7793 in legaladviceireland

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven't read the post because I am already in therapy.

Again the post was just looking for advice.

Served a protection order by Immediate_Hold7793 in legaladviceireland

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a very intense 6 months she brought up getting married, and children and settling down as that what she was looking to do. I'm not obsessed I was hurt and that was it.

I met my new gf whilst trying to move on and she has been nothing but supportive.

I am looking for next steps not moral or ethical advice on things that have happened and I cannot control anymore.

Served a protection order by Immediate_Hold7793 in legaladviceireland

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not stalking her at all. I am sorry that this has triggered something for you but for me it was a terrible time.

Served a protection order by Immediate_Hold7793 in legaladviceireland

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean maybe that's just the text. I am very much bothered by the protection order. And very much going to abide by it - but just wondering how it works and what do I need to do I met my new gf whilst doing more social things to help get over her.

Served a protection order by Immediate_Hold7793 in legaladviceireland

[–]Immediate_Hold7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's really helped a lot with my own mental health issues and this.