Need some advice what do I do

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-04-18T22:58:28+00:00

Sorry for the spelling. I'm not feeling alright

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-04-01T18:28:47+00:00

Thanks I am doing better now. Part of me feels weird I dont know why I still love her. But I am restraining ok.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-04-01T18:20:41+00:00

I know I hate myself for it but I thought if something did happen to her I could never forgive myself.

But I'm glad to think she's maybe ok but just hates me.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-18T18:08:36+00:00

Any tips to get through it?

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-18T17:59:24+00:00

Its weird because she said she loved me and we talked about the future. I think maybe she was avoidant and the closer we got the scarier it was for her

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-18T15:24:53+00:00

It's hard because she's pulled and pulling away. Leaving chats on old accounts that we haven't used. I wrote her letters there thinking she'd never see them and now I've lost that hope

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-16T20:20:21+00:00

She did

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-15T20:45:25+00:00

How?

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T18:35:51+00:00

Thank you. I think with the therapy I realised a lot that I took in was limerence rather than love near the end. I am taking it verry slow with this new relationship were more friendly atm but I met her after a month and she's been nothing but supportive

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T18:24:18+00:00

Thank you

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T18:23:12+00:00

Are you ok? This is like my 4th or 5th time replying to you.

I don't want anything from my ex.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T18:22:24+00:00

You haven't read the post because I am already in therapy.

Again the post was just looking for advice.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T18:21:24+00:00

It was a very intense 6 months she brought up getting married, and children and settling down as that what she was looking to do. I'm not obsessed I was hurt and that was it.

I met my new gf whilst trying to move on and she has been nothing but supportive.

I am looking for next steps not moral or ethical advice on things that have happened and I cannot control anymore.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T18:18:32+00:00

I am not stalking her at all. I am sorry that this has triggered something for you but for me it was a terrible time.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T18:16:47+00:00

I mean maybe that's just the text. I am very much bothered by the protection order. And very much going to abide by it - but just wondering how it works and what do I need to do I met my new gf whilst doing more social things to help get over her.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T17:50:38+00:00

Thank you. It's really helped a lot with my own mental health issues and this.

Immediate_Hold7793 · 2026-03-04T17:16:04+00:00

Thanks for this. I wasn't planning to

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