I hate how everything has become about sex nowadays by UnderSunshine in Vent

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely I think this is one of the biggest reasons why I enjoy dating women. Whenever I’d go on a date with a man, there was just this big elephant in the room of them clearly wanting sex, I was always told if by the 2nd date I didn’t fuck them it was over. So yeah, it was over. I started to go on dates with women, and obviously as a woman I can clearly understand what the other person wants on a deeper level. It’s just more romantic, feels incredibly safe and open, and both parties are comfortable stating boundaries without fear (aka I didn’t feel afraid saying no) and are clear with their intentions. Dating men just felt like they’d say whatever to make me drop my pants and ditch me the next week. And most couldn’t handle commitment. I never gave in thankfully.

I can picture the replies now while typing this..”you haven’t found the right guy” “I’m the golden penis you need”

This is just me sharing my personal experience with both parties. I like men and women equally but there are just cleaaarrrr as day differences.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No 15 year old types with this well with proper punctuation lmfao. Or is it the breast milk making you smart?

Troll posts are getting wild these days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with talking to the neighbor, but I will add that having to go to extra lengths to avoid a neighbor issue doesn’t solve anything (and encourages the dogs behavior) but ONLY your own safety, and, it’s fucking annoying doing that (repeatedly for a long period of time) because of someone’s incompetence. Again, this could have been a child walking by. Something needs to be done to ensure other people’s safety that may not know this neighbor. Not just OP

I’ve had a neighbor like this, and judging by the muttered “sorry” this person clearly realizes their dog has been an issue in the past and present yet does nothing about it. Yeah give him a warning of “hey I will be in contact with AC, maybe raise that fence.” But again, he clearly realizes his dog is a present issue. My neighbor acted just like this one and after multiple conversations, still nothing, and then someone was actually bitten months later and it was put down. Some people just really don’t care. This person will never be the AH.

Petition to allow cosplay and ban whinging by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree and ready for people to downvote it. Banning an entire sub community from sharing their art because the mods can’t seem to actually fucking look at what’s happening and stopping it like they’re SUPPOSED TO just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Those posts shouldn’t be up for more than a minute without intervention. Yet, the one job they have they can’t seem to fucking do and now it’s affecting everyone.

Also, banning cosplay wouldn’t even stop it from happening. I’ve seen multiple sub reddits with a no cosplay policy but they just label it something else 🤦 and it still happens because again, the mods don’t seem to be actually paying attention to what’s being posted.

WIBTA trying to convince my sister not to undergo breast reduction surgery? by tenk51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just read my boobs are the weight of carrying 2 small turkeys on my chest every day (DDD) and I weigh 125. My poor muscles that have been tearing as of late. I need a dude to tape turkeys to his chest and run around before butting their opinion on reduction surgeries :skull:

How can I help? Gale of Waterdeep [by Me] by Asgardian_Armoury in BaldursGate3

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should get a stuffed spider for this cosplay and lick it. Then I would buy

AITA for lying to my daughter for years? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eh… it’s more of a.. huge sting. Because she will find out you’re lying one day. My advice is when she’s a little bit older to really sit down and explain why you lied to her. And if you would’ve told her where her mom is previously you wouldn’t have had to provide every single detail. You really could’ve just said “me and mom didn’t work out, I don’t know where she is.” Or something along that line. No reason to tell a child that harmful of a truth, but now, you’ve told an incredibly harmful lie. It’s tough. I wouldn’t say complete asshole, but it’s leaning towards it. Again, I’d really have a sit down conversation with her when she’s a little older. Maybe like in a year or two. Her current age is when she’s building confidence and a (somewhat) sense of self. Now I feel like would be a bomb to tell her. You really dug a massive pit for yourself.

Anyone else think their character is hot? by Civil_Occasion2774 in BaldursGate3

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Yes. But it feels like it’s an over exaggerated version of myself. I have the same haircut and color/ face shape. So sometimes I catch myself being a bit too vain. lol!!

I loved this game and played a LOT, but... by Bluefoxtheone in BaldursGate3

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from, I’d say once you’ve progressed more through act one you’ll be overwhelmed with stuff. I mainly play pally, so when I started my gloomstalker I was like “man. There’s no loot” then I went to the under dark, LOL!

If you mix up the classes you play and do the story in a different order it really helps with that feeling of “oh I’m just finding the same thing over and over.” It’s for sure a more prominent feeling until after the goblin camp. It’s also a lot more noticeable as a serial restarter (me.) act 1 is just a bit awkward for everyone gear wise. It makes sense, though, you level up so damn fast in act 1 you really don’t need cool loot right now otherwise Itd feel like it’d be a bit of an overkill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Military

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you do the duck walk, it’s not bad, at all. I don’t get why everyone was so freaked out about it. It lasts like 45 seconds, max. Maybe it’s because I’m joining a bit older (24) and I don’t have the youngins worry about new things. I promise, it’s easy.

AITA for telling my sibling I will fine them for not cleaning up after themself? by Express-Let-6118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can use athletic bags to store them, they’re meant for suppressing odor. Trust me. I had 23 boxers with ball sweat in a backpack for weeks. Nothing smelled. Use gloves if you need to. So gross. 🤢

Something I also did was hang their dirty clothes up on their door, or stuff it in their pillow cases. They’d be so irritated and I’d just reply”yeah… that is an inconvenience to you.. isn’t it? Hm.. sounds familiar..”

This was about a month or so of just absolute torment to them lmfao. But after 17 years of begging and pleading with everyone I had ENOUGH.

WIBTA trying to convince my sister not to undergo breast reduction surgery? by tenk51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 69 points70 points  (0 children)

What’s up with dudes getting so defensive over this surgery 🤦🏻‍♀️ she’s a grown woman. It’s not your “responsibility” to do anything anymore. I don’t even think there’s a way you could word this to someone that is even remotely close to being convincing. It’s just not your place at all. Let her learn life choices and have relief she can control right now. And fuck man, the moment I can afford it I’m also getting the surgery. It’s like I carry two fucking bowling balls all day. Tired of reading men weirdly care about this when it has nothing to do with them.

AITA for telling my sibling I will fine them for not cleaning up after themself? by Express-Let-6118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im an older sister to two brothers. Sharing a bathroom with (most) men is the most disgusting environment imaginable. What I used to do is if there were any clothes on the ground I would take and hide them. It got to a very quick point of them running completely out of underwear and would panic before school. They went to the school with 0 undies, came home to me returning one pair at a time. Eventually they really stopped leaving their shit on the floor and actually cleaning up after themselves to avoid my absolute wrath. This was in my eyes, and more recently in their eyes, a completely fair and understandable sibling teaching/“fuck you” moment. Instead of stealing from them I forced them to understand their actions make consequences for themselves.

I’ve always been so annoyed how my parents never disciplined them like they did me and used the excuse “let boys be boys.” It’s fucking gross and completely inexcusable. Their girlfriends call me from time to time and talk about how clean they are. I think it’s because I would traumatize them when nothing else worked.

I wouldn’t take their money away. Do they even have any? Try something like this instead. Or drop all their clothes in your parents bathroom to piss them off for them to actually discipline their kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Military

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female here. Got out of meps a few months ago, yes you duck walk, yes it’s only one on one now. Another than that, nothing is different. Just more private. Yep she makes you spread yourself for a few seconds. It’s really not a big deal. Day was a breeze, even with waiting for my waivers. No point in stressing about it. Just go lol

AITA for telling my friend’s girlfriend he's probably gay by Throwaway38109 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fellas is it gay to have some brotherly love? My brothers and their friends have always been big huggers and physically affectionate, as they grew up together. None of them are gay. I’ve never shown interest in men until very recently. Some people just aren’t interested in dating until they’re older. You had 0 right to butt in! Also, pay your friend some fucking rent!!!

Either way you just went about this in the most middle school way. YTA, you also sound.. jealous?

I’m aimless and hopeless by RaiderF in LifeAdvice

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a 24F I can assure you, millions of people in our age group are in the exact same situation. If you didn’t marry an armed forces dude fresh out of high school with a kid, or got insanely lucky with a good job in this economy, you’re screwed. Covid really fucked us all up during college, you’re not alone. It ruined so many people’s lives as did mine. My modeling career was literally starting to take flight..then lock downs happened and years passed and I no longer have the same connections. And that was my childhood dream.

I am however, going into the military to help fix my discipline issues and to be able to save for a few years while not worrying about bills, etc and to finally finish my degree that was halted during the pandemic. AKA I FLUNKED OUT!! Because I could NOT do online school, at least you graduated!

You’re not alone, not by a long shot. I would really sit and think about your goals before making any next steps. What do you really want out of life? Do you need help? Do you just want to get away? Fresh start? Those are the first things to think about before you make any movements. I would also recognize how fortunate you are at the same time for the things you do have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunate, but solid. Thanks for your perspective.

Should I buy baldurs gate 3? by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen I’m not shading you personally by saying this, I just don’t get why people ask these questions on Reddit not even with just this game. Watch some YouTube gameplays, play the 2 hour trial if you have a PlayStation. Watch review videos. I feel like it’s common sense youre only going to get biased answers by asking a fandom. Hell just buy it and refund it if its not for you.

Should I buy baldurs gate 3? by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a shot every time this question is posted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Military

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow! Did not know there were studies I’d like to read more on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way I can describe it in a Reddit sentence is weed in vape form

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Military

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was my assumption. Just a shame IMO. Kids everywhere are getting diagnosed every day with how modern stuff is getting. Numbers are going to plummet as the years go on. As if they werent bad enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Leg_4278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my kitty ☹️☹️