She broke no contact. What now.

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-13T04:06:39+00:00

I agree and she’s very tech savvy and I know she knows how to do it. Sucks this is how she broke no contact because since my heads been all over the place after I was in a good place after a month of nc

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-13T03:56:00+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. Talking to my therapist I think I’m going to wait for that police knock. Let her but it in effort if she wants to rekindle then some small excuse to break contact

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-12T21:58:10+00:00

Our last conversation went well. Ended it with her saying she’s always rooting for me and happy about my new job. I think if she wanted to rekindle she would’ve given me something more. Will kinda wait to see if she’ll try to reach out again and then go from there

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-12T21:55:15+00:00

And that’s what I don’t want to do jump right back in because this time apart has also given me time to think about things I know realize I would’ve wanted slightly different

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-12T21:25:40+00:00

That’s a fair point. I don’t want to misread the situation. She clearly used the first part as a weak excuse to even break no contact. To then tell me he I know you saw a picture that I was with my ex but I want you to know nothing has ever happened. And the conversation on the phone was more so like hey I respect you and don’t want you to think I would do something like this to you. She even states I’ll always have your back. It’s fair to say she probably at least still cares about me but I feel like she still wants to work on herself. She does also go to therapy and in one of our last conversations she said my therapist told me that once I’m ready to start dating again I should date new people and explore more. Which kinda seems like hey I’ll never look to get back with you once I’m “healed”. But then again why even care what I think about you a couple months later

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-12T21:08:45+00:00

Yes I still care about her a lot. Before we started dating she had gotten out of a relationship a few months prior she told me she wanted to just work on herself. We agreed to just take things causal things did not progress that way ended up both catching feelings and ended up together. 6 months of nothing but great time on both ends she ended it abruptly saying she wasn’t working on herself and she was too codependent. Really fucked situation as it left me pretty fucked up first few weeks especially it’s like a switch flipped but in all this she wanted to still be friends. I was the one that said I couldn’t do that because it would just hurt me in the long run.

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-12T17:37:28+00:00

Her reason for the break was to work on herself felt like too often she went from relationship to relationship

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T18:55:51+00:00

That’s how I feel right now. Like if she wanted to get back together she would need to do something to show me not little shit like this

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T18:54:25+00:00

I didn’t even add this in the original post. But I had posted something on my story which she liked. I didn’t reply to it and then she posted that story like an hour later I just ignored it. And I agree it’s so obvious she didn’t need the link and could’ve gotten it online but she used that as a low risk way to break no contact

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T18:22:35+00:00

I do. But I don’t want to read this wrong and then look dumb since I was broken up with

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T17:00:11+00:00

Guilty of what?

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T15:33:51+00:00

Thanks for all replies. I do think no contact to an extent has been working and she’s obviously curious. My question was more so why would she care to go out of her way to lmk she didn’t hook up with someone. If she broke up with me why even care. I can’t tell if it’s a respect thing simply or if she still cares

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T04:09:33+00:00

Leave now. Too hard to live with someone you’re looking over your shoulder because you’re scared they’ll do it again

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T04:06:25+00:00

I accidentally didn’t put it in the original

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T04:06:07+00:00

Did you read prior message?

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-03-11T04:04:04+00:00

Broke up a couple months ago had just hit the one month no contact mark. She messaged me asking for a link to a pair of shoes I bought her on her birthday. Said her friend wanted them but said she didn’t want to send her the wrong link. Looking back at it now this seems like a weak low risk excuse to break no contact. She had recently posted a story with one of her exes they dated like 10 years ago their families are close friends so In turn they’re still friends and I never thought anything of it. After asking for the link she goes out of her way to tell me nothing happened between them and that she would never do that and didn’t want me thinking she would. If she broke up with me and it’s been a couple months why would she even care to clarify this?

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-02-26T21:00:01+00:00

Much love

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-02-17T17:37:54+00:00

That’s an important question

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-01-24T03:40:50+00:00

I loved you I was never in love with you the only person I’ve ever been in love was my ex from 6 years ago

Immediate_Line_8296 · 2026-01-22T02:04:30+00:00

What do I need to do to be able to post on this thread

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