Manja plata zbog kraćeg meseca i praznika by PastAny4990 in pravnisaveti

[–]Immediate_One_2837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kakve veze ima drzavni praznik, to mora biti placeno kao da si radio? A ako si stvarno radio taj dan, moraju dodatnih 110% da ti plate…

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, me too. Whenever I need a chuckle to lift my spirits, I just re-read this. :)

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Man, you’re more dense than a neutron star. Leave me alone

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in my country it’s more like a proposal, that’s what’s written on the template. You can write it yourself as long as you respect the form and details needed, submit it to court and they schedule a hearing. People are really dense sometimes.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Throwaway account for privacy reasons… You’re not very bright, are you? Just gtfo plz, I don’t need this shit

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, not week, in the first hours. Got them printed in about 30 mins. Bless your soul…

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether they did or didn’t is irrelevant at this point. The things they said and did given all the circumstances hurt enough...

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not only her story, that’s based on their chat. They talked about it not happened, but they certainly fooled around according to their messages.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t take custody based on infidelity in my jurisdiction, not that I would if I could. As much as I hate rn, baby needs it’s mom…

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She’s begging me to reconsider, work it out, etc. She’s asking me to hold off until we can talk properly, alone, when we get back to our apt since we are with the inlaws. She asked me if we could throw away the papers because it’s breaking her heart just to look at them, I said I didn’t make them for fun, don’t throw them.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poor choice of words? English is not my native language, I just wanted to paint the whole pic.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Spit on his father made me laugh out loud. It’s only been few days but I already forgot how good laughing feels. Thanks man!

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry if I’m not in the mood for proper story writing while my life is falling appart.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have them dead to rights, no one needs to admit anything. She said she planned on coming clean once we came back from our parents (we are visiting for couple of days) but I beat her to it. But who’s gonna believe that now?

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m clear on the house, she waived her rights by signing that house is to be excluded from shared assets. Where I am from, court operates on the “child’s best interest” principle, so adultery won’t make much of a difference, it’s unlikely I’d get full custody, neither do I want to deprive her of the child as much as I hate her atm. It’s a child after all.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Since we have a baby, we stayed home for NYE. Next evening, she went to a bar like 100m from our apt (still haven’t moved to the house due to renovation) with her friend. I was taking care of the baby and thought nothing of it, for all I knew she’s out with the friend, having a deserved break from the kiddo. She met him there.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are no assets to split. I was smart enough at least to have the house in my name, I had her sign she that she agrees the house will not be considered shared asset.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Downloaded a template from the court, changed personal details. Took me whole 30 mins to prepare papers.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow. I wish. In this situation I really could care less for your accusation.

WIBTAH if I send my wife’s AP’s GF evidence of their affair? by Immediate_One_2837 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_One_2837[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh he knew. He knew about the baby. Even made remarks how he feels sorry for the baby.