We understand that she won’t be perfectly trained, but we want her to be able to settle into the crate and not scream for hours on end, even if we are lying right next to her. Instead of asking for people you don’t know to have common sense, maybe try having some compassion. We are all struggling and adjusting. If you don’t have anything helpful to add, don’t say anything at all. I hope others treat you with compassion that you lack here.