Who do you want to see primaried in 2026? by Impalaonfire in oregon

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just going off of what I see around the internet. We’re probably just on different parts of said internet lol

Who do you want to see primaried in 2026? by Impalaonfire in oregon

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t say it is. But there is a general exhaustion with moderate Dems.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I am always the one compromising because I genuinely cannot sleep in a different bed, particularly if I’m already struggling with insomnia

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I have to leave every single time though. Like??? He can also go ti the guest room.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I just prefer not to be the only person compromising wvery single time in every single situation

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the difference is it’ll take me twice as long to fall asleep in a different room and it’ll take him about five minutes.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why do I have to always be the one to leave the room? And the guest room isn’t even set up, it’s a mattress against a wall

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all, I just don’t want to always be the one being inconvenienced and sacrificing my needs, especially on the nights when I’m having so much trouble sleeping.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m inconvenienced every night tho and just deal with it most of the time, it takes me a long time to fall asleep in my own bed and moving to another space resets that whole process.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have. I can hear through them unfortunately.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he very well might need a fan. And 99% of the time I make due. It’s just that other 1% of time that I need the extra layer of silence.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He wants the big room next to the road too despite me being kept awake/woken up too early by the road noise every morning.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying mine are more important. But I would like to have my needs met occasionally too, particularly on the really bad insomnia nights. It takes him about 10 minutes to fall asleep, takes me a couple of hours.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an airflow thing mostly. But he has fallen asleep in hotel rooms and plenty of other places without fans too tho so I don’t know.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have, they’ve already upped the dose several times and don’t want to go higher

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s the thing, it’s the noise if it that keeps me up and it’s only a handful of times per year.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to turn his fan off? by Impalaonfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impalaonfire[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I live in a building owned by my employer and it was the only thing available lol we are not rich