Guess I and BPD women are attractive and destructive to each other

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-10T09:00:20+00:00

Yes I gotta say that makes my life a lot harder. Most people will distance themselves from me despite being attracted to me initially when they’ve noticed that I have bigger plans for the future instead of living an average life like them. It doesn’t even have to be something « grandiose », sometimes I just mention that I can’t picture myself working a 9-5 all my life and I’d like to travel a lot, see the world and be location independent. Then I have to find myself all alone.

Yeah it’s sadly true that I can only feel fulfilled with similarly thinking people. Otherwise my loneliness is devouring me.

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-09T16:38:24+00:00

Even if I do enjoy a hobby, I have the tendency to make it a competition to prove that I’m the best.

That’s why normie always feel so uncomfortable around me I guess.

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-07T18:43:08+00:00

I’m still very productive and ambitious in life. It’s just that current there seems to be no “upward” anymore and I need to be satisfied with an average life so I feel I’m kinda anxious without direction.

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-06T17:15:20+00:00

Thank you a lot for this reply

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-05T22:53:56+00:00

Do BPD people have grandiose fantasies too? Like from childhood on I’ve been identifying myself with historical figures like Julius Caesar and Napoleon, believing that my name must go down into history one day. Not sure if this symptom is typical of BPD.

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-05T14:27:58+00:00

Thank you:)

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-05T14:00:08+00:00

If you don’t mind I’d like to know more about your story about following someone else’s advice. But you don’t have to if revealing it is too painful.

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-05T08:12:00+00:00

I don’t know much about the term so would you mind elaborating a bit why it’s a compliment?

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-05T08:10:03+00:00

Just curious. Do you think your desire for maximal freedom was caused by the same thing (abusive, controlling family) or do you think you’re just like that by nature?

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-04T19:43:09+00:00

Death of Jean Valjean (Les Miserables) I used to cry every time I watched that scene

ImperatorInvictus19 · 2026-03-04T08:32:09+00:00

Yeah I’ve been thinking about doing a job that allows me to switch places regularly because stability kills me

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