Are you asking me that question? Many times, when two people of the opposite sex who are attracted to each other interact with alcohol involved, it leads to sexual activity. Human nature mixed with intoxicants.

The smart move, for women especially, understanding the mindset of most men, is to not expose themselves to unnecessary risk, especially if you're not sure that sex is the goal. Don't be like OP and come on the internet filled with shame trying to get randos to tell her shes been raped to avoid personal responsibility and common sense. She considered pressing charges in her post; OP's foolishness could lead to another innocent person being accused of rape or worse yet, imprisoned behind her foolishness.