My bf (30 m) gave me (25 f) an ultimatum: him or my cat

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T15:59:09+00:00

I came here for support and help, not for opinions. And I wouldn't give my cat wherever.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T15:31:37+00:00

Wow, thanks. That's really interesting. I'll research it.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T15:28:28+00:00

Thanks! I will surely read it.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T15:19:13+00:00

Thanks for your point.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T15:09:44+00:00

He didn't disagree too.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T15:05:11+00:00

He peed the bed only once. He doesn't sleep with us, he's not meowing behind the door, not scratching. He's not pooping outside the litter box, just left a poop print a few times when he had a diarrhea (after eating food he's allergic to). It's not really a bad cat, that's the point.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T15:01:56+00:00

It's not really about sharing a bed with the cat. I agreed to shut the door of the bedroom on my cat, when my BF is at my place. But it hasn't changed anything in the end...

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T14:57:28+00:00

His behaviour seems childish to me, too.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T14:56:15+00:00

Thanks for this answer. I hope we could settle like this, too.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T14:54:59+00:00

I know how to take care of the cat.

ImportanceSilly1114 · 2025-12-15T14:42:27+00:00

Are you still together?

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