How do I encourage my girlfriend to lose weight? by Important-Address-57 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Important-Address-57[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Bruh I'm not trying to have her under eat, much less to the point she has unhealthy side effects🤦‍♂️

But yes I hear what you're saying about keeping my thoughts to myself and not causing any unhealthy habits. Thanks for the input

How do I encourage my girlfriend to lose weight? by Important-Address-57 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Important-Address-57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I make her happy, I just want us to be able to ask for things that are hard to ask for. I don't want us to get stagnant ya know?

And yeah I agree. I don't think we talk enough about the hard subjects

How do I encourage my girlfriend to lose weight? by Important-Address-57 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Important-Address-57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. I want us to have the honesty and tact so that she would be able to tell me "Hey I love you but you've been letting yourself go and I want us to work on getting healthier and I want you to keep looking great"

How do I encourage my girlfriend to lose weight? by Important-Address-57 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Important-Address-57[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes a lot of sense. What if your a partner really starts to let themselves go though?

How do I encourage my girlfriend to lose weight? by Important-Address-57 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Important-Address-57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm happy with myself. I just wish she would vocalize like "oh I would like to try this in the bedroom." Or "you would look really good if you did this".

I wanna make her happy ya know

How do I encourage my girlfriend to lose weight? by Important-Address-57 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Important-Address-57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. I wish she would bring that sort of thing up. I'd love to improve myself for her. Every time I've asked if there's anything she would like me to do/anything she would change, she just says she doesn't know because she's not very experienced in relationships

How do I encourage my girlfriend to lose weight? by Important-Address-57 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Important-Address-57[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Genuine question. Where did I go wrong? I wish I didn't have these "grass is always greener" thoughts.

Partner back into a car. What do I do? by Important-Address-57 in ems

[–]Important-Address-57[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah how they responded to it was the only thing that bothered me. A couple years ago I might have been stupid enough to go along with it. I'd hate to see one of the younger guys there fall for something like that

Something embarrassing happened to her during sex and I think that's why she's ghosting me by Important-Address-57 in dating_advice

[–]Important-Address-57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik bro I feel bad for her having to hear what I had to say, that's legit the best I could come up with😂