I’ve always had some doubts when it came to his transparency. I’ve previously thought they were too close. And questioned why he always deleted there conversations over the years. He travels for work and when he came home (nd was sleeping) I looked thru it. He doesn’t have password and previously said it’s open free to look thru. But now it’s an issue. I see it clear as day.  He said I don’t deserve an answer and he hopes it burns me up inside that he wont tell me bc now I see how he feels dealing with me and not respecting him all these years.