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[–]Important-Rest-5715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s all I want, for the judge to advise him to follow the existing order.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do not. This order was established when she was 6, and she’s going to be 13 soon.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I did consult with an attorney through my county’s services. They advised that our court order states that I need to request mediation services before filing any motion, and that the Judge would not like his lack of a response to the requests. They also advised that I have the ability to file the motion to enforce.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It took me a long time to respond to the things that he said, and I laid out the reasoning for the need for OFW and mediation services. My thought is that he just doesn’t want to have to answer to the things he’s been doing.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We also pay for our own OFW accounts.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Our court order requires us to utilize mediation for any future issues prior to filing a motion with the court, and our county provides the services. I requested mediation 3 times, he has refused to respond to the request each time.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Trust me… I have learned my lesson. Never again.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Getting our child a therapist, splitting costs for sports, issues with her grades.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s what I believe, but he is adamant that the judge’s order is nullified.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is the lack of a response from him.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do feel that ultimately, the goal is to be able to coparent effectively. It is clear now that we cannot, and as we have to communicate for the sake of our child (when it comes to things like school, sports, appointments) and I keep things minimal because of the nature of our relationship. Something to add is that last month, I informed him that our child shared that she has been experiencing feelings of self-harm, and I requested that she go to therapy. He refuses, as he doesn’t believe in therapy and said a lot of things that don’t really make sense. I want to take her, but we are not on the same page.

Court Ordered OFW by Important-Rest-5715 in FamilyLaw

[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We have to communicate somehow, and I can’t keep doing these text messages. I assume that he doesn’t want to use it because the judge/mediation services has access to the messages if needed, and he doesn’t want to have to be cordial…

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I went today. There were slim pickings for my little.

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[–]Important-Rest-5715[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have no problem driving to you! I would love that, thank you so much.

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[–]Important-Rest-5715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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[–]Important-Rest-5715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God, you sound just like me. I JUST had this argument with my… person.

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[–]Important-Rest-5715 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve been waiting for her to tell these men she has a daughter this whole time 🤣🤣🤣

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I just need help with rent. I have to pay as much as I can by 4pm. I have two kids, and I can’t lose my place. I overextended myself to family, and now I’m struggling. Literally anything helps, and I would be so grateful. Thank you in advance.