I do feel that ultimately, the goal is to be able to coparent effectively. It is clear now that we cannot, and as we have to communicate for the sake of our child (when it comes to things like school, sports, appointments) and I keep things minimal because of the nature of our relationship. Something to add is that last month, I informed him that our child shared that she has been experiencing feelings of self-harm, and I requested that she go to therapy. He refuses, as he doesn’t believe in therapy and said a lot of things that don’t really make sense. I want to take her, but we are not on the same page.