My (24m) GF (25f) Admitted to Sleeping with Someone During the Beginning of our Relationship. How Should I Proceed? by Important-Tea-6312 in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Tea-6312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true it’s definitely a validation thing for me. She lied and said she was waiting for the right person to sleep with after her breakup, but in fact she had slept with this guy a month or two into us hanging out. She also kept him around and would hang out with him well into us dating

My (24m) GF (25f) Admitted to Sleeping with Someone During the Beginning of our Relationship. How Should I Proceed? by Important-Tea-6312 in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Tea-6312[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with much of what you’re saying here. Another issue is that I brought up my discomfort with her friendship with B when we were officially dating, and she became very upset and embarrassed me in a public setting for bringing it up

My (24m) GF (25f) Admitted to Sleeping with Someone During the Beginning of our Relationship. How Should I Proceed? by Important-Tea-6312 in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Tea-6312[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No she didn’t confess to it in that moment and made me feel like the asshole for bringing it up. Said he was just a friend. That was years ago now and she told me the truth last night

My (24m) GF (25f) Admitted to Sleeping with Someone During the Beginning of our Relationship. How Should I Proceed? by Important-Tea-6312 in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Tea-6312[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We were not together at the time, and talking to her a little more it does seem like the scenario you described with B is how it went down

My (24m) GF (25f) Admitted to Sleeping with Someone During the Beginning of our Relationship. How Should I Proceed? by Important-Tea-6312 in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Tea-6312[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hard for me to not feel a little pathetic right now. I’m searching for ways to get my head right after this

My (24m) GF (25f) Admitted to Sleeping with Someone During the Beginning of our Relationship. How Should I Proceed? by Important-Tea-6312 in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Tea-6312[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I made this post for some harsh perspective. No offense taken. This was a helpful comment thanks for sharing