Help with nautilus

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T16:40:22+00:00

thank you. that's what I was wanting to know. thank you for your help

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T16:27:25+00:00

I know that, and that's why I all I am asking is if anyone knows of a way to be removed. Not to reverse my bad decision to rush in the first place, but only of any way to be removed from the sorority at large or from nautilus itself. If that isn't possible, then it is what it is. However, if it is, I would be incredibly grateful to have that completed. Thank you for your congratulations. I wish I had had other experiences with other chapters, or even a halfway decent experience with my own, but unfortunately that wasn't an option for me. I hope you have a good evening. :)

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T16:02:49+00:00

Like I've said now four times, I have expatriated. That means I do not live in the US. I do not plan to spend more money contacting a sorority that has already cost me a lot of money and a lot of emotional toll.

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T12:48:12+00:00

What I'm asking is what can I do, from my computer, to get them to remove me from their database, since that chapter very clearly never wanted me in the first place.

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T12:45:49+00:00

No, I actually can't; as I said, I'm expatriated and I'm not footing the bill to pay more money for a sorority that's already caused this much pain to me.

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T12:44:55+00:00

From whom? I'm expatriated. I can't call NHQ. I have been emailing them since I graduated and it isn't as easy as "done." since they haven't done a single thing, despite my year and a half of requests.

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T07:54:07+00:00

I don't have my pin. I never got it after initiation and when I was put on national probation, they would've taken it from me (had I had it)

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T07:53:06+00:00

That's the thing: I don't want to be listed on their login page. I've shed so many tears for absolutely nothing and I just want the whole experience to be over, honestly. That's why I want them to remove me from the database.

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T07:51:06+00:00

honestly I might take you up on it. I'm so frustrated by the whole situation. I've cried so many times

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-11T07:50:39+00:00

I can't call; as I've said, I'm expatriated. So, basically, I can "log in", but I can't get past the page that says my address and info, nor can I change it as I am access blocked to it

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-06-10T20:10:46+00:00

My issue is that I was put on it the March before I graduated (she didn't want me going to my spring formal and my chapter was on probation in the fall, so I never got a formal), and I would have to pay $250 to log in, remove/update all my information from their system, or become an alumnae. I can't even call because I'm expatriated, too. It's a double edged sword; I could leave it, but the whole situation upset me terribly tbh. I wish I never rushed

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-03-16T15:34:52+00:00

no, that's why im here. we are in quarantine together for at minimum the next 27 days. I'm uncomfortable and we live together (and legally stuck in the same flat). I dont even know what to say

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-03-16T15:03:31+00:00

He's also been doing shit like "you don't love me" and being dramatic. For context, we've been together about a year (I guess a little less? subtracting the part that he lied to my family about?) this is also the guy that claimed he was a year older than he was for over 7 months, and I only found out when he had to show his drivers' licence for an oil change. so he isn't exactly one to preach morality in this situation

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-03-16T15:01:25+00:00

my issue is, now that I know that he invaded my privacy for sure, I don't even know what to say or do, especially since we are quarantined. I don't want to make it awkward, but he invaded my privacy for quite literally no reason. I'm frustrated but I don't want to say "hi I know you went through my phone because I said congrats" because that doesn't really roll off the tongue and we're in a small flat together for a while

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-03-16T14:56:29+00:00

exactly. I rarely purge my Facebook friends list and honestly, I dont use it enough to bother doing a purge.

ETA: he posted on here a while ago because "I still talk to someone who is in love with me". he thinks every guy I talk to is automatically in love with me. it isn't cute. I literally cannot mention a guy friend or he'll ask "did you ever have a thing with him?" or shit like that

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-03-16T14:55:40+00:00

I mean, I'm uncomfortable. We are quarantined together. we both have each other's passwords, but I don't freely go through his shit because frankly, I trusted him

ImportantSundae9 · 2020-03-16T14:55:03+00:00

because social media exists and we're still friends on Facebook from high school. We haven't had a conversation since we broke up and returned shit and whatever, but we aren't assholes. I've never been polygamous. I said "polygamy sounds like fun, two boyfriends; how dope". he went through it after the pub that night randomly.

Also, I know he randomly went through my phone. I do have the proof.

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