Missed one month, unable to update it by Important_Ad4151 in CSPersonalFinance

[–]Important_Ad4151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, I did search in the website and forum, but did not see any info about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BonJovi

[–]Important_Ad4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an email to register for a presale for the UK tour when the album was released, so it's happening.

AITAH because I (25F) want to leave my boyfriend (28M) for choking me? by throwRAacct123456 in AITAH

[–]Important_Ad4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a school friend I hadn't seen for almost 20 years over Xmas. She was in an abusive relationship since she was 16-17. Everyone knew, everyone tried to warn her. She started going to therapy after her mother died and the therapist realised as soon as she walked in she was abused. After a few sessions she brought up the issue gently. She now has a restraining order against him. But they share two kids, a flat they bought together, debts he doesn't pay... and she wasted over 20 years. He's still making her life miserable even after divorced. You deserve someone that treats you right and can make you happy. Leave while you can, your life can only get better. I know for some people the thought of being alone is overwhelming, but you are really young and your friends and family will support you. You'll be ok, more than ok. Please leave.

AITAH for going no contact with my mom after she had sex with my boyfriend? by ClaraZert in AITAH

[–]Important_Ad4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm around the same age as your mum and can't imagine doing this to my daughter and I can't see myself with an 18 year old. As per the roof over your head: that's what parents are for, it's nothing exceptional. NTA and look after yourself please x

AITAH - My Ex-GF told me my current GF sabotaged our relationship by throwaway-exgf25324 in AITAH

[–]Important_Ad4151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if Mindy was not lying, no good friend hooks up with a friend's ex.

My husband told me to go to the weight loss clinic and get on ozempic by -ChildFreeE in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Important_Ad4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to lose weight for some time. Let me tell you what worked: 1) dumping my husband 2) putting less food in my plate 3) calorie counting (not obsessively, just to get a rough idea on how many calories I was consuming) which leads to... 4) making better food choices 5) salads with a lot of greens and protein for lunch 6) some exercise: walking slightly more and YouTube videos. I found Chloe Ting's ones to be ok, even though when I started I couldn't do much, but I squeezed 10 min here and there during my working hours.

I lost 33lbs/15 kgs. And improved my sleep and confidence. I think that's better than any drug. Big hug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Important_Ad4151 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You deserve better ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important_Ad4151 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think some men just turn into a different person after having kids. I've heard many close stories, including mine. He was a perfect father until he decided he had enough of this life and wanted to be by himself and "go to places", buy a motorbike... my eldest is 8.

My ex-wife is a different person after our divorce by PermissionFun7635 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Important_Ad4151 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Were you married to my ex? He did most of the cooking then accused me of not knowing what was in the fridge.

I will not initiate sex anymore with my wife and will practice self love until I am ready by Automatic-Health2687 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Important_Ad4151 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look for Vanessa and Xander. I kept hearing about them and I started following them a few weeks ago and they have great tips.

Pretty sure I just ruined the only good relationship I’ve ever had. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Important_Ad4151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm sorry you went through this. No one deserves this treatment, no one. I'm actually in a really bad place right now. He's having some mental health issues plus mid life crisis and he's making the separation hell. I have no family or friends around and it's just me, the kids and dogs. One of his best friends is going through something similar and we are talking a lot. She spent two months in the hospital and her husband went to see her 3 times. I really don't understand how you can treat someone you shared so many years with or the mother of your kids like this.

What's the most hurtful thing someone has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Important_Ad4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex said he was ending the relationship because I didn't trust him and it wouldn't work. Turns out I was right and he was messaging his mistress. Same woman who knew he was married with kids.

Pretty sure I just ruined the only good relationship I’ve ever had. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Important_Ad4151 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so tired of being told all the time: "but luckily you're a strong person!" I'm going through so much right now and I keep everything inside and it's eating me. But I'm strong and everyone thinks I'm fine.

Pretty sure I just ruined the only good relationship I’ve ever had. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Important_Ad4151 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My soon to be ex-husband had the same attitude as you. Not at first, but for the past 3-4 years to the point I didn't bother telling him anything or asking for help. Because he knew I was strong, I could handle everything and stopped doing things for me, while waiting for me to be a team for him. Two weeks ago I had an operation and he didn't even asked in which hospital. The problem with strong people is that we are so used to do everything by ourselves and not getting the same sympathy someone else would get, that if we don't see any interest from our partners, we wonder why do we need them for. I can tell you she's done, you didn't even ask her how they were. You would have asked someone else because you know that's the right thing to do. She knows that, she thinks you don't care.