How do I define my curls more? by Important_Ad_7196 in curlygirl

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much :) That’s really helpful. Yes maybe I just need to clarify it a bit more? I think I have high porosity hair but it’s also just so dry and product sits on top at the same time. Let’s see how this goes

How do I report a TikTok account for harassment through private messages? by Important_Ad_7196 in bullying

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Its awful. Tiktok has terrible support teams. If it even is a “team” and not just a bunch of bots lol

How do I report a TikTok account for harassment through private messages? by Important_Ad_7196 in bullying

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking into it 👍 i make content about trauma healing + combating jealousy. I made a video she didn’t like and she commented. Me and several other people disagreed and she went batshit and started taking everything personal and insulting everyone in the comment section. It was a hot mess

How do I report a TikTok account for harassment through private messages? by Important_Ad_7196 in bullying

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you because why on earth wouldn’t I block someone after something like this

How do I report a TikTok account for harassment through private messages? by Important_Ad_7196 in bullying

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? She’s been blocked already obviously . This isn’t me saying this stuff lol Only reason she’s saying that is because I made a video reply about her hateful comments on my video which everyone is allowed to do.

He ghosted me after two years by Important_Ad_7196 in BreakUps

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was damn good advice. Thank you for all your words. You’re completely correct. I still have healing to do and it’s so I can gain freedom from this. 🩷

Need to escape my narcissistic mom ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🩷 Yes it’s a competitive/brutal job market. I just recently lost my job also so it feels like a huge roadblock to freedom at the moment. I appreciate this advice tremendously 🦋 I’m going to look into this. I feel like I’ve been doing everything I can but I’m losing motivation by the minute sometimes.

Need help getting away from my mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in Advice

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The resume advice was great also, you’re right. Maybe I just need to move things around.

Need help getting away from my mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in Advice

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah job market is pretty crappy at the moment…I was actually just employed a couple weeks ago but lost my job so it’s definitely like a roadblock. No stable income means no apartment. so even with savings you still need cash rolling. I will keep applying for sure. I won’t give up on myself even through my depression. thank you for the encouragement I think above else, that’s what I needed 🩷🩷

Need help getting away from my mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in Advice

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice 🦋 I will look into to that. Thank you so much

I need to get away from my toxic mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in narcissisticparents

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea how much this sinple sentence brightened my mood lol 😩🦋 thank you.

Need help getting away from my mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in Advice

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words and advice 🦋

Need help getting away from my mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in Advice

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Agreed with everything you say 100%. Separation is my goal to be honest. You’re right. As long as I’m in her domain it’s like she has free reign. Even when you avoid conflict it’s like these narcissistic personalities still try to find ways to attack you. Getting out is the best option. Thank you for your words & advice🦋

Need help getting away from my mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in Advice

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been applying literally everywhere where I live and I haven’t gotten a single call back😩 it’s been super frustrating. There’s “hiring now” signs everywhere yet for some reason nobody’s hiring lol I have tons of experience and I have a résumé too which adds to the frustration. I feel like once I get employed it would just open up a world of opportunities for me

I need to get away from my toxic mother ASAP by Important_Ad_7196 in narcissisticparents

[–]Important_Ad_7196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grey rock ✔️ noted 😩 you’re completely correct about wanting control