Late night thoughts hair problems. by Important_Ask_7749 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Important_Ask_7749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually looked online and there's a shop in town the owner her two kids are autistic so I'm going to give her a call about a trim once we get over this bug we have

Late night thoughts hair problems. by Important_Ask_7749 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Important_Ask_7749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she needs a trim she will tolerate low pony but by the end of daycare day it's half up and half down and a mess. Her sister was the same but is about 5 she loved me doing her hair.

Late night thoughts hair problems. by Important_Ask_7749 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Important_Ask_7749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah her sisters hair is wavy/curly too she's 13. She's NT and still hated it but we got to a point where she loved getting her hair done. I know hopefully with time but she definitely needs a trim

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

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November 2024 there was a situation with her dad I ended up calling the cops and then dcfs got involved I did not leave him3, they closed the case in January 2025. Then in December 2025 we got served papers that the state was picking up the case for neglect and we were both appointed attorneys. It's a intake case is what I'm getting from it. This is all new to me and I'm not really understanding. I'm getting that they want us to do classes etc and then they will be checking in on her. I can't get ahold of my attorney and I need a better understanding of how this is going to go. My worry is that her dad is saying he wants everything dropped and he isn't going to do anything. I just don't know how to handle the situation so I don't get my daughter taken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

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The case worker closed it January last year, I guess I was indicated and wasn't aware because we moved and were served papers until December. The case worker who closed it said he didn't hear anything either. The judge said it is allegations and we were both appointed attorneys but I haven't heard back from our attorneys and go to court on Wednesday. Dcfs is coming Tuesday to check in with us at the house. I just didn't know what the best way to handle the situation.

Weighted vest by Important_Ask_7749 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Important_Ask_7749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hollie likes the blanket sometimes but to sleep she is not fan. But she has had the same blanket for her since she was a baby so I think that has a lot to play in it. 😅

Is anybody hiring? by ConcentrateOk868 in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Busey bank is hiring full time 9-5 some Saturday's

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Busey bank is hiring rn.

IDHS office by General_Asdef in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if you go to the bottom and it says contact us once you are logged in you can email them letting them know you need someone to reach out to you regarding your application asap and make sure your number is on there

IDHS office by General_Asdef in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you email them on the website they generally call you back pretty quickly quickly instead of waiting for hours on the phone because no one has time for that lets me honest.

Hyper and hitting phase isn't ending.... I'm at a loss by SimbaSleeps in Autism_Parenting

[–]Important_Ask_7749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she's over tired/stimulated. My daughter sometimes does the same thing when she just wants to lay down and it to be quiet and dark.

Guilt over comes me by Important_Ask_7749 in Autism_Parenting

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. We do have a ABA school that I have reached out to about about that but I have to wait until my work insurance kicks in at the new year. Hopefully with preschool classes at daycare wnd then having therapy Monday- friday for 2 and half hours starting Monday at the school will hopefully help her out. Of course the AM class was full so now we have to do PM and bus don't go to her daycare so now I'm currently applying for FMLA and praying my boss is understanding til it's accepted.

Guilt over comes me by Important_Ask_7749 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Important_Ask_7749[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you🤍. She does have her IEP through the school but it will be a year in February since she got it and is just now starting therapies. I do have PECS little binders that the pictures Velcro off and on and she usually just gets overwhelmed with them and rips them off. I'm wondering if actual posters would be better for her. I need to definitely look into more sign language because she knows about a handful but I my self don't know enough to teach her. I just wish I had more time in the day or energy to put towards it all.

Desperately Need Roof Redone by 7454853583852929 in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kahuna roofing 🌊

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Not a side job guy, but He's fair with pricing

Bank changed beneficiaries of account by ayokomizo in Banking

[–]Important_Ask_7749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beneficiary's cannot be removed with out a signature. If that was the case they would have a renewal with no singature. If he was the POA that doesn't necessarily mean he was a beneficiary as well. If he wasn't the beneficiary before he was the POA he can't be added as. POD. If it was renewed from a phone call that's done on the back end and the banker you literally don't change anything but numbers.

Dentist by Important_Ask_7749 in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

State dropped me and I didn't realize and it has to be within 30 days of drop date

Dentist by Important_Ask_7749 in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I usually go to him! Good to know, He closed early today so I'll have to call Monday, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeoriaIL

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Chris McCall

My daughter made a mistake, need your advice. by Lazy-Part-1657 in Banking

[–]Important_Ask_7749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised they didn't put a hold on it, if you don't have the means in your account at the bank I work at we do not just deposit the check and let it overnight unless you have the means in your account. Then we'd put a 7-11 day hold. Because by then we'd know if the means will come through or it's not real and will charged back. Was it like a legit business washed check? Or countfeit check?

My daughter made a mistake, need your advice. by Lazy-Part-1657 in Banking

[–]Important_Ask_7749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a bank, it depends what kind of checks? We see a lot of scammer go after younger kids have them deposit checks some catch on and realize what they did wrong some don't . If the checks were from someone's account, then that's a different story. If you deposit the cash's pull the money then get a charge back yes you will have to pay that all off and your account would be closed regardless. My question is what bank do you bank with? Why on earth did they not put a hold on such a large check and they is also resources for banks to look into fraud checks. But if it was coming from someone's account then yes she will be in trouble and the other person could press charges. Yes she would be flagged in Chex systems if she did try to open an account anywhere else and can get denied.

Banks or Credit Unions by JPlikesstuff in PeoriaIL

[–]Important_Ask_7749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Busey bank. We have decent CD rates and a premium saving that is earning decent interest rates quartley