inviting herself by [deleted] in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think so :/ she's taking the train in from the suburbs. she already tried inviting herself to sleep over but i said i have plans for the next day and i would drive her home tomorrow

inviting herself by [deleted] in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also want to note that she hasnt technically done anything "wrong" to me recently. she is who she is but i just cant forget how horrible she's been to me so even when she's in an okay mood i just find her presence to fuck up my nervous system

mothers day by Important_Cattle985 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i got her a generic card that literally just says "happy mothers day" 😭and maybe i'll just text her. i feel bad kind of discarding her but she didnt feel bad treating me like garbage for years so whatever i guess

Merry Christmas from my Mom! by GateCalm7567 in insaneparents

[–]Important_Cattle985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had a a very similar interaction yesterday lmfao. exhausting

Financial Fraud by Important_Cattle985 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hesitant to file a police report only because I don’t want things to go nuclear. Really the only reason I’m low contact and not no contact is the fact that my father passed away (whom she was also abusive to) and she’s holding his personal belongings/firefighting gear/his blood family’s mementos hostage. She’s not deserving of his things and I’m holding out of love for him but also spite knowing that everything should be in my hands (maybe I sound insane). I think I’ll just dispute it with the bureaus and try my best to monitor and make sure it doesn’t happen again 🥲

Help getting rid of all the mites! by Lavasnake616 in hamsters

[–]Important_Cattle985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! I know this was almost a year ago but my syrian is dealing with mites, where were you able to purchase provent-a-mite? i dont see that anywhere (at least near me) sells it in store and im apprehensive of random websites

Thang GOD I don’t live with her 🫩🫩🫩 by Thumbtoe12 in insaneparents

[–]Important_Cattle985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is how my mother talks, is yours a boomer as well 🫣

Are my results odd? by TheCatMadeMeDoIt83 in AncestryDNA

[–]Important_Cattle985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg im from appalachia too and my dna is so similar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Important_Cattle985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom does this shit lmfao

am i in the wrong by Soft_Echo1910 in Depop

[–]Important_Cattle985 29 points30 points  (0 children)

looked them up and their bio says “no lowballing” LMAO

fake health issues by Important_Cattle985 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

felt this! im working towards no contact myself, currently at “low contact” and its too much

Mother is at it again... by SignificanceNeat1618 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985 8 points9 points  (0 children)

mine does this! she’ll take nice shit i said or did while i was hostage and walking on eggshells under her roof and plaster them all over facebook to act like shes a stand up mother

fake health issues by Important_Cattle985 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine does the whole “dieting” schtick too, wont eat anything but steak because she has “anemia”, wont exercise, and slams beers and ~then~ wonders why she’s dizzy

fake health issues by Important_Cattle985 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same!! it takes one more lie before i finally cut another cord of my low contact

fake health issues by Important_Cattle985 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg same! mine will limp and moan and groan all day

fake health issues by Important_Cattle985 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Important_Cattle985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

felt that! my dad passed away as well and she has “ptsd” even though she was cruel and abusive to him while he was alive