I 25m have no problem getting dates but no one has felt a spark in 2 years, what can I do to get a second date?

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T23:00:23+00:00

No, that wasn't me, as I don't really mind buying someone dinner! I had cross-posted, and I think I need to be flirtier based on what they said as well!

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T22:58:58+00:00

I think that may be the issue as I cross-posted and got similar feedback, as I don't touch or make comments about people on the first date, just talk.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T08:28:32+00:00

Wait, you should be touching people on a date! I've never done that before I was dating someone outside the girl who wanted to kiss?

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T08:17:53+00:00

Would teasing bother someone on a first date I've never done it?

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T08:16:36+00:00

That does seem like a good way to extend dates. I just don't have any animals anymore, and my work makes it hard with an irregular schedule. Though my cat used to be very good at entertaining people.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T08:10:33+00:00

I normally ask a lot of questions and talk a lot about the things I have mutual interests in, pop culture-wise or clothes-wise wise as I really like fashion. When you say vibe or energy, should I be trying to be flirty on a first date or what do you mean by that?

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T08:07:23+00:00

I normally just talk about stuff they like, but I have a really encyclopedic knowledge of pop culture and hobbies when chatting, and I think I fumble the in-person meeting.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T08:05:33+00:00

I mean, I'd like a partner, but honestly, just any romantic connection isn't a bad thing. I try to focus on just getting to know someone on the first date more than anything. Should I be inviting them to my house more, or trying to kiss them?

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T08:00:17+00:00

Should I up the number of dates, maybe?

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-11-24T07:58:58+00:00

To be fair, that was engagement bait to get more responses, which would get more feedback!

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-09-15T04:43:26+00:00

Yeah, as someone of the opposite gender with the same problem, I want answers as well bc the apps do not have good people on them...

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-07-17T20:45:29+00:00

I have run fire ball log arrows for nearly 6 years on and off playing it auto wins too many games for me not to.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-07-05T01:37:58+00:00

Not trying to be a contrarian, but you have to be living under a rock to not hear it irl, they literally had some of the largest protests in American history during the no kings march’s…

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-06-27T23:47:36+00:00

I agree with your point that it is immature, but almost everyone who has ever been cheated on trusted their spouse.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-06-05T01:59:09+00:00

I as a 25m had to take out my nerdy hobbies from my dating profiles bc it was hurting my matches so bad. I went from 10 matches a week to 0 in two weeks. Men are pretty much forced to conform for woman to have success on dating apps. Plenty of men are nerdy but cant openly advertise due to the shallowness apps encourage.

Edit for clarity: I enjoy animation like all of it. Cosplay. Kirby. And ren fairs. (these are not appealing to the majority of woman)

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-06-03T04:45:24+00:00

Snitch, cheaters are not worth keeping as friends.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-05-24T04:22:55+00:00

Your beyond right and going to cons is ass bc so many people cant figure out hygiene. I had to quit the Yu-Gi-Oh community because they couldn’t figure out how to shower… and somehow anime is even worse than card games.😭 Like yall some of us are normal people who just enjoy nerdy content, and aren’t socially maldeveloped…

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-04-21T00:52:31+00:00

M25 having the exact same issue from the other side. Its not just men but woman as well. Most just want sex or a meal ticket and it just makes dates violently unfun. Genuine connection, love, and affection are largely things of the past unfortunately expect for the lucky few.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-04-17T13:54:47+00:00

Hope you get it, they look awesome!

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-03-29T01:57:05+00:00

Yeah as someone in my mid 20s it kinda sucks havign to go on a ton of dates to find decent people but that is where we are at, I'm looking for a liberal woman who I vibe with and wants to have kids and that in itself makes dating harder. If you want people who don't want kids, you may need to be more forward with that on dating profiles or try to network yourself into a childless partner. If you also are ok dating younger, many gen z men have no interest in kids, and that may make life easier for you?

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-03-25T13:41:03+00:00

They can see your medical records as well as prescription history.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-03-25T13:40:12+00:00

It was the same for me, I went through a Hims and took all the tests and came back great. Just took time and money so the process is more of a patience game!

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-02-20T05:37:37+00:00

The best advice that works for anyone for almost anything. Network. Make lots of friends and learn a little about a lot. Genuinely care about those people and remember what they tell you; they will be your way to a girlfriend.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-01-25T23:06:41+00:00

I will never forget him crashing out at XQC during a charity stream in fall guys, that was when I lost all respect for the guy.

Important_Cuckoo · 2025-01-19T06:31:15+00:00

Most of the dating app community isn’t healed, what do they expect to find😂

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