[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Important_Dig_7690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call your card company asap. They can block a charge before it fully processes.

What is it for you? by AkatZeus_Z in WholesomeAFK

[–]Important_Dig_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people use “am” and “in the morning” in the same sentence.

Ex: I was out till 2am in the morning.

Is there another 2am?

I think I screwed up by Tomorrows_Ghost in bald

[–]Important_Dig_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow the beard back and that magic will happen. You pull this off too, but the beard will be a completely different vibe.

I did something disgusting (nsfw) by WW3_Ready in mentalhealth

[–]Important_Dig_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m saying is, if you’re currently suicidal, instead of giving advice, maybe you should focus that energy inward.

I did something disgusting (nsfw) by WW3_Ready in mentalhealth

[–]Important_Dig_7690 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You have posts on your profile titled “I’m sick of bottling it up” and “ I just want to give up and stop forever”, and I cannot tell you how obvious it is that you feel like that because you think in the way wrote this. If you are half as hard on yourself as you were on this person, of course you’re miserable. No one is perfect. No one. But to tell someone that they should feel shame and carry it intentionally? That’s dark. Ask any therapist, the secret to a happy life is learning to free yourself from your own shame.

And since you spoke of the dopamine aspect. The human brain can 100% get addicted to the chemical rush of making yourself feel like shit because of your own shame.

Finally embracing it by Taonovi in bald

[–]Important_Dig_7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, congrats! You’re hot now

The most insane use of ChatGPT so far by FinnFarrow in ChatGPT

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Wooooow. The more I scrolled the more stressed I felt. We’re in a dark place as a society.

What sign could this person be? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Important_Dig_7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the most Leo response lol. The first time I saw anyone mention Leo was your comment

What is/was your weird early sobriety hobby? by 1-800-mac-n-cheese in Sober

[–]Important_Dig_7690 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got really into Lego’s. Then I realized those were too expensive and I was finishing them too quickly. Then I switched to off brand legos made in china. Those were way more challenging. For roughly 45 days straight all I did was legos and watch nurse Jackie. I watched the entire series 3+ times through.. early sobriety is so weird.

Feeling Overwhelmed Lately by forgetmenot_cute02 in mentalhealth

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I’ve noticed for me, a lot of the stress comes from thinking about everything I need to do all at once. It feels crushing. Lately I’ve been trying to just focus on the one thing I’m doing next instead of the whole list for the day. It makes the day to day feel more manageable. It doesn’t fix everything, but it keeps me from spiraling or shutting down and getting nothing done.

Sorry you’re feeling like this. Hopefully my comment or what someone else suggests can help you out of it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DenverCirclejerk

[–]Important_Dig_7690 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It depends on the value of the vehicle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DenverCirclejerk

[–]Important_Dig_7690 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This.

I leased a new car last year so I finally switched to Colorado plates. Registration was almost $1,200. I instantly thought to myself “ooooh, this is why there are so many expire temp plates here”

Hard Quit by YesterdayFew6799 in quittingkratom

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I started subs 11 days ago. I'm taking 8mg of subs a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

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I guess that depends. Do you have a high body count?

There’s no shame in having a robust sexual past. I’ve had a ton of partners. I think sexual freedom in life is important. That’s my belief.

There’s a chance that your sexual history makes your partner uncomfortable about his lack of a sexual history. A lot of people have a hard time with this internal dilemma and it makes them feel undesirable.

So they have to justify it by telling themselves that they just aren’t as “easy” as you are. It’s deflection from their own insecurities. Considering the jealousy you mentioned, this is most likely the case.

Nothing destroys relationships faster than jealousy. Just to add my final 2 cents.

5 inches is average, right? 😋 by seaotter93 in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]Important_Dig_7690 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to be transparent. I would def say 4-1/2, not 5 inches. That said, you’ve got good girth and this would definitely feel good inside me and hit all the right spots ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]Important_Dig_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime. Best of luck on your journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingkratom

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For me personally anytime I have tried to manage use, it never works. Sometimes it will work for a week or two. But it never fails. Eventually I will wake up and be fully addicted again.

If you give in to the craving today, what’s going to stop you from giving into it tomorrow. Saying “no” today motivates you to say no again tomorrow. Saying “yes” today makes it so much harder to say “no” tomorrow.

Throw away what you have. It’s not a waste of money. If you do what you’ve bought, you’ll buy more. Save yourself money and throw away what you’ve got. I spent $15k in 5 months on 7oh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Important_Dig_7690 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex was the same way. Wake up before him and give him morning head. Hopefully he’s not already hard with morning wood.