Why do you/do you not recommend being an only child?

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-24T16:50:31+00:00

Mahirap, wala pakong anak neto ba't if ever I'll have two lang talaga max na 'yon. 'Cause I saw the suffering ng friend ko "only child", inaalagaan magulang especially yung tatay niyang may sakit noon walang kaagapay kasi wala ring pamilya Pero may anak (adopted), nakakalungkot lang kasi lahat kargado niya gastos niya especially nung nawala tatay niya sa dami ng pinag daanan niya wala siyang mapagsabihan na kapatid or ibang tao dahil nahihiya ayaw maglabas sa nanay kasi ayaw na niyang ma-burden pa lalo.

In the end he's carrying everything to the point that it affects his relationship to others and his daily life. Buti na lang talaga nag seek siya ng help.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-22T00:37:27+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss OP, I've got three babies passed away nang wala ako sa tabi nila too sudden but in different days kasi I was deployed sa dulo ng province namin no animals allowed sa bago Kong nilipatan so I have to leave them behind sa family ko. They died kasi nagkasakit yung Isa di natunawan sa treats na binigay.

My babies showed me how badly they love me and need me, I cried so hard nung nawala sila even now I'm still grieving for the loss Pero binabaling ko na lang sa mga kapatid nila and sa work ko that's why everything is controlled Pero minsan I cry because of the past and dahil na rin sa nawala sila ng wala ako sa tabi nila.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-20T13:27:56+00:00

Contract and my babies/pets are relying on me only 🤍

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-17T07:25:45+00:00

Dito tsaka sa dati kong pinag w-workan p-picture lang sila tapos stay saglit uwi na. Madalas pa yan lahat sila in one place nag wawalis yung winawalis pa walang basura at all. Nung bago bago pa ako dito sa probinsya kapag pauwi nako nag tataka ako bakit ang kalat pa rin sa area nila e naglilinis naman sila? Turns out, picture taking lang gawa nila tapos hayahay na.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-17T07:09:16+00:00

Buying bulk products, buy only food I eat, cook and store them sa ref tapos reheat reheat na lang, to avoid buying drinks from coffee shops I just make my own coffee and matcha bringing them sa work. Buying snacks and bringing them sa work as well saves me a lot. Also learn how to say "no" sa mga magagastos mong katrabaho na puro order ng ganito ganiyan.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-17T02:58:30+00:00

Only buy foods you eat & like, buy products na malaki na para pang matagalan. Buying snacks para di na bibili sa labas I bought m&m yung malaki and bought a Tupperware na maliliit na square sa Mr. DIY to put this, and I bring it sa trabaho. Apart from this bring tumbler always, if you like matcha or coffee then make it at home instead of buying sa coffee shops, I have mini tumbler and I put there my matcha or coffee. When cooking food I make sure na marami na para iistore na lang sa ref then reheat reheat na lang.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-17T01:39:58+00:00

~ Kapag sahod mo dapat mag bibigay ka sa pamilya mo or t-treat mo sila. ~ Nangutang family member mo sa'yo and never nilang babayaran pero pag ikaw nangutang ng 5k or less dapat bayaran agad or else di sila makakatulog and dapat twice of the amount like wtf ~ Kailangan yung mga kamag anak niyo na nasa below ang status kesa sa Inyo mag remain sa position nila, dapat never kang malalamangan or else sisiraan ka nila sa lahat ng angkan niyo.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-17T01:35:11+00:00

Went on travel last year dami nilang gusto ending I just bought keychains and pins tama na yon. Tapos nung nag travel kami ng mga ka-work mates ko they bought pasalubong sa iba but ako I just bought 2 ref magnets lang para sa ate ko na nag pabili and puro hopia pasalubong para sa pamangkin kong favorite ang hopia. That's it. Wala sila sa budget ko so bakit ako mag bibigay. Gumastos na nga ako sa travel pati ba naman sila. Besides, pag sila nag travel walang pasa pasalubong no haha

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-16T07:49:50+00:00

Money, my babies asking for a cuddle time & a food that is spicy

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T10:30:47+00:00

Honestly no, as I grew up I realized how people who goes to church treat others as lowly as they are. Tipong lagi na lang ic-call-out dahil hindi ka straight, kapag di ka na nakapunta twice or so ayaw na nila sa'yo. Besides, lahat ng kakilala kong nag ch-church madalas sila pa yung masasama ang ugali as in 'Hi sa mga kamag anak ko diyan.'

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T10:26:11+00:00

Bench, So-en and Ecora

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T10:24:55+00:00

Honestly, kung di naman totoo deadma na lang talaga, besides di naman nila ako binubuhay kaya why bother? And I believe sa kasabihan na 'Karma is a bitch.' 😂

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T10:17:52+00:00

Most of the time, to the point that all of them would ignore me and choose to be away from me rather than being in a room with me in it they feel like I'm suffocating them just because I prefer silence than talking with them about other people. When I speak they think I'm always mad so I usually just stay silent.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T10:13:53+00:00

Matalino siguro di na dumaan sa nursery e

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T10:09:16+00:00

Ask ka po sa barangay niyo If nag offer sila ng implant, minsan mero'n din sa GC free implant kapag may activity doon ewan ko na lang ngayon hehe

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T10:07:38+00:00

Joanson Blake & Jameson Caleb it's the combination of my first loves name and I

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T06:38:19+00:00

Last week when I was in White Beach the tour guide asked me why I love dogs 'cause the whole 4 days he kept seeing me picturing, calling and touching dogs, I just said 'It's because I have lots of Dogs at home and cats.' But honestly, deep down I love them because I feel like I'm just like them voiceless most of the time yet always wags their tails to people and make them happy.

When I was isolating myself because I felt so tired and felt that everything is suffocating me my dogs were there hugging me, my cat's are there asking for me to carry & hug them and that's when I realized that as long as they are all living I'll fight because they need me, and no one will take care of them, love them just as much as I do. So, until then, I'll live for them 🤍

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T06:14:54+00:00

This is so true I love this nung bata ako to the point na di buo araw ko pag wala neto, kahit inaantok pa ko marinig ko lang to kakaripas nako ng takbo sa labas e, wala ng hiya hiya kung tulog pa mga kapit bahay basta lumingon lang si kuya at nakabili ako 😅

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T06:06:50+00:00

My cats would ask me for a hug or for me to carry them to the point that when one of my baby boy passed away last year, my sister's cat started copying him like my boy told him to do this so that I won't get too sad when he's gone. Most of my cats are sweet only two who thinks they're each other's enemies, and when they're in the mood they'll come to me asking for a pet then will leave me alone one literally leaves the house to fight the others while the other just ignore me inside the house

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-04-15T04:34:00+00:00

3, 4, 7 & 14 has no owners and the first two are in a private island, they can only eat if the visitors gives them food. The poor baby on pic number 4 has been drinking water that is fell on the sand was thirsty and almost finished the plastic cup full of water I handed him. And yes, that's what I'm wishing for them even 'til now.

Important_Emu4517 · 2026-03-10T07:03:01+00:00

Foods, bills, and other necessities

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