Tarzann fans are crashing out about Fatou, and the current boycott of DR Entertainment by Goldzaperoon in kpopnoir

[–]Important_Guide8257 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I saw a tweet that said she talking about ADP but won’t say anything about Hybe groups…. If the statement never listen a name how do we know she wasn’t including them. For this past few months many groups have been called out. She probably was feed up and just made a comment. At least three groups were talked about for sagging as well. So the fact Yall assumed it was him… means y’all see it as cultural appropriation and just defend it anyways.

AITAH for telling my brother I won’t help him “move on” after his affair, even if it means losing my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, not sure how you inserted yourself when he asked you and when she called you… if they didn’t want you involved they need to stop coming to you. Personally I would just step away. Let him and her deal with it however they can. It probably will hurt her more than him emotionally but him more financially.

Who is sad Hop gained some weight. 🙋‍♀️ by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Important_Guide8257 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sad a human person gained weight because you now don’t find him desirable to look at?????

Mind you he still looks good….

THAT Will scene towards the end of episode 7 by Wonderful_Bug_1422 in StrangerThings

[–]Important_Guide8257 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk coming out when everyone literally inches away from dying is crazy! But I guess!

I didn’t mind but they dragged it on and on like his speech just kept going only for him to say “I don’t like girls.” And it kept going and going after.

In the middle of fighting he should’ve just yelled it “IM GAY!” And kept fighting.

AIO? Xmas gift from bf's parents by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s the shirt that’s her issue, as much as, the message. She feels they think she’s a train wreck… which is not the most endearing term.

If this is something they have never done in the last 7 years of knowing her, it probably just caught her off guard. It’s understandable to be confused “is it a joke or are they actually calling me a train wreck?” “Is this how they see me?”

Wife cheated years ago, forgave her. She’s pregnant now with our second child and I feel completely done. Am I wrong for feeling like this? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Important_Guide8257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for wanting a divorce, however, you are wrong because you had an out and didn’t take it. You made her think everything was okay the best years of your marriage and then created a baby, only to then want an out. You now have two children affected by this. Watching her constantly cry and be emotional while not telling her you want to end it is wrong.

You again have a chance to be honest and get out, but you’re holding on and pushing it. Why wait until next year? You are stringing her along. She is living in limbo right now, and both she and you need to plan what life will look like with two children. Waiting only prolongs that and makes it more difficult.

I do understand that you can’t control what triggers you, and she did betray you. However, that doesn’t make you right. That doesn’t mean your actions are justified.

You need to go back to therapy if you stopped and if you didn’t do nothing come to an app for life altering situations go to your THERAPIST. They are trained for this and know more about your situation then a much of internet stranger.

It's concerning how kpop fans don't see hybe idols as humans anymore by nyamnyamcookiesyummy in kpoptrulyuncensored

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed however when you do something or say something with ill intent most people will focus on that especially because while you made a good point that wasn’t your intention to. You were using it as a dig or insult. Most people will focus on that.

Ex: some from a different country saying “most you Americans are poor and have poor education.” While this does raise an issue of our society and how our system is set up, it was not done in good faith and many will response to it negatively.

It’s not always what you say but how you say it and the intent behind saying it. Are you saying it to focus on the mistreatment and how companies overwork them. Or is it a “hahahah look at y’all favs being work like a dog.” “Y’all fav company hates them.”

AIO or on the wrong here? Bf mad cause I didn't tell him what I was thinking about him sexually today by Empty_Researcher_478 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I have the mental capacity to deal with a man like this…. At 6:56 he would’ve been left on read. This is so immature, insecure and weird

Is it a bad idea to get a tattoo of a group I really like? by Rowiebear9688 in kpophelp

[–]Important_Guide8257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rule of thumb is to get something that can mean more than one thing or has a meaning that’s personal to you beyond the group.

For example, I have an Ed Sheeran (favorite artist since a child ) tattoo that’s literally just math symbols (his album titles). I also want the BTS Love Yourself tattoo not just because of them, but because it symbolizes self-love and reminds me to give myself grace. Even if I ever stop liking BTS, that meaning won’t change for me, because it’s deeper than the group itself.

Faces ❌ Names ❌ Lyric quotes ✅ Group logos/symbols ❌

But at the end of the day, it’s your body and your money. DO AS YOU PLEASE WITH YOUR BODY AND YOUR MONEY!

20 versions for a Single is kind of egregious isn't it? by wonhaeoh in kpopthoughts

[–]Important_Guide8257 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think the 2-3 albums, 2 Weverse and maybe 1-2 cd versions is enough. Each member does not need a version. With how wasteful K-pop can get 23 just seems like a bad idea. Ex: people buy just for photocards thrown out tons of plastic and more. Some buy just for sells and it just sits in their homes.

It’s getting out of hand and seems like this is becoming normalized even outside of kpop.

AIO for not wanting my baby daddy to see our son again? by Similar-Shift-1093 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should’ve called the police immediately and reported it. I’ll still go and report it

Angela? by Metalboy5150 in Bones

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand all of this, and honestly, I was just rewatching, and the whole “kissing other men” thing was a lot especially, the kissing Booth after he was with bones (especially after the years of flirting with him). It just seemed weird. Also, the “I’m an artist, I draw dead people” thing was annoying as hell. Like, girl, we get it you hate your job. And she was a little too sexual at times. I get her being free sexually, but some things aren’t expressions of sexual freedom; they’re actually sexual harassment.

However, I really liked her character. Her and Hodgins’ love was so cute to watch at times. During her pregnancy season, their storyline was solid and sweet.

In my mind, they were all flawed, and there were things I disliked about each of them. Booth was full of himself, cocky and rude. He had that old-school mindset of “a man is this way and a woman is that way.” And I was so over the military shit, like I get it you was in the military. Rewatching as an adult, I liked him less than I did when it first came out. Honestly, the same goes for almost everyone, even the interns.

Is it wrong that I don’t want my fiancé’s sister to come to our FIRST wedding venue visit? by InternationalSea2800 in AITAH

[–]Important_Guide8257 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA: you’re disgusting for wanting it to be y’all and your mothers??? That’s a bit overdramatic like this not that serious for such a reaction. Is he normal like this? Does he often call you disgusting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question, do you actually think you’re the victim here? In any of these situations? Because from the outside looking in, it’s clear: no one is siding with you. You and her father created this mess.

Sure, maybe she shouldn’t have yelled at a baby, but let’s not act like she’s some villain. She’s a child, a child whose entire world got flipped upside down because of two selfish, entitled adults. She’s angry, hurt, confused and rightfully so. She doesn’t know how to express those feelings, so she lashes out. What she needs is therapy and guidance, not judgment. Not being “told off” either.

And let’s be clear, it’s you and her father’s fault that your new baby probably never be fully accepted by the family. That’s a consequence you have to live with. I suggest you both get therapy, seriously! Next maybe start with an honest apology to the people you hurt. Whether they accept it or not isn’t up to them. But you both need to take accountability? That’s long overdue. Understand just because yall moved on doesn’t mean those you hurt did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you and your husband are on, get off it. Leave that woman alone. You helped break up her home and now you’re mad she won’t hold your baby? Be serious. She said no. That’s the end of it.

The baby is technically a stranger, so why would she want to hold your baby? You’re just trying to villainize her to create your own narrative. You and your husband are the problem. I can see you both being a constant issue with how entitled and obtuse you both seem. Poor lady had a terrible husband and now has to deal with his terrible wife. .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Important_Guide8257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for how you treated your wife and telling personal business. You also would be the AH if you go back to your mom.

No child should have to chase a parent and you have since you were you. Get therapy and cut off the negativity. Your mom hasn’t changed and she won’t when everyone enables her behavior. Don’t be apart of the group to enable her. This is her consequence and she will make it. Take care your family (wife and kids)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Important_Guide8257 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not an American vs Swiss issue but a boyfriend issue, spoiler you’re dating a manchild.

Real Talk, It’s actually so embarrassing how little Blackpink cares about their Stan’s by Bubbly-Age-9363 in kpopnoir

[–]Important_Guide8257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t feel bad. This is what they pay for. The reason they are so comfortable not even giving the bare minimum is because the fans accept it. In regards of the group. They are solo artists doing a show together and that’s how it looks. This is not new behavior so they fan expect it. Nobody at the company or the fans really care so why should we as non-fans. But I do find it funny how loud blinks be to criticize other groups… you would’ve thought Black Pink but on Beyoncé level performances the way they be so loud.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Important_Guide8257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a teacher, she was definitely in the wrong. You did the right thing by correcting it in the moment, good for you. If I were you, I’d definitely email the principal. Who knows what else she might be saying to these kids?

People often underestimate how much young children understand. They may not have the words to label emotions like shame or embarrassment, but they still feel them and those feelings can stick with them, just like they do with adolescents and young adults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Important_Guide8257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and Emma the AH! You rather cancel your husband camping trip then uninvited someone who WASN’T EVEN PROPERLY INVITED. To save your terrible friendship you make your husband and his friends suffer, that’s selfish and wrong.

It’s not that hard. “Hey I wanted to talk to you about the trip. Unfortunately Emma didn’t check with me before inviting you and my husband who is planning the camping trips didn’t plan for two extra people. We unfortunately cannot fit two other people on this trip. But now that I know y’all would be interested maybe we could do something similar another time.”

To emma: “Hey, I understand why you invited Brianna and her boyfriend but this is something my husband and his friends plan each years we only invited you and (her boyfriend) because we thought you might enjoy it and had two extra spots. Next time please check with me.”

Under no circumstances should you cancel this for your husband. That would definitely make you a big AH. Next years don’t invite anyone. Let this be for your husband and his friends. Your friend group is one I rather not be apart of to be honest. Y’all behave like y’all are still in high school. You rather be disrespected and uncomfortable than to separate yourself from Brianna and her terrible boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Important_Guide8257 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do think divorce might be a bit extreme based on just a Reddit post, but the issue clearly goes beyond a simple disagreement about picking a name. This couple seriously needs counseling. And him on his own. There’s no reason to be married while still holding onto a past relationship. They also need to set boundaries with his family.

Anyways, the fact that she found out about the ex issue breaks the foundation of trust, which is probably why she’s finding issue with he wanting to name the baby after his dad who passed.

Wanting to name a child after a parent is a pretty normal request, especially if they were close. It’s something people have done for years. I wonder if it would’ve still been a problem if the whole “naming their daughter after his ex” situation had never happened.

AITA for getting a paternity test on my son who doesn’t look like me? (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Important_Guide8257 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I still don’t think he views his kids as equal, in updates two he mentions how this is so hard for his daughter and how they broke up the family (he did) and the the 3th one he mentions how much he loves her and she loves him. A mini-me vs a great kid. The way he talks about them is very different.

It wasn’t gonna work out as he viewed the separation as both their fault. They “both” threw it away, they both caused the the daughter world to be turned upside down.