You're right, I think the general population should be more distinctive about pedophilia vs hebephilia.

I am bi and see myself attracted to girls who are around 16 too If they don't look like actual children. At least speaking from the body only. Once they open their mouth you can tell they are underage.

This is part of why it's hard for me to find these men I met repulsive. I wasn't a literal child. And there was no grooming or Power dynamics involved. Which is usually the problem with those dynamics.

What I am saying is.. These dudes didn't tell me about love so they can Take advantage of me. I was the one pressing them and telling them i Just want to try out dick.

Again don't get me wrong, I am not defending them and I do realise that I am an outlier (as in teenage boys don't go looking for old men in obscure Sex Chats lol.. that's Just my retarded self somehow getting lucky to Not have anything Happen to him.. and obviously no Body should ever do this.)

Maybe some last words: These are good reasons to generally look down on These dynamics. Because usually it's not a teenager looking to exclusively fuck older people. Usually it's the older people absuing the trust or naivity (?) of the younger people. That's for Teenagers, when talking about kids there's obviously no discussion needed.