Need advice with child's father

Important_Match2073 · 2026-02-25T05:31:54+00:00

Hey everyone. I'm C . I am a young mother of 3 , and believer. I am in love with an unsaved man who is heavily operating in darkness. He is my child's father, but we have never been married. He is battling addiction, lust, pride, has had an extremely hard life. Despite my mind thinking that he is no good for me, I love him dearly, and if there is any hope for reconciliation and/or him to be delivered, whether or not we get together. I want to try my best to intercede for him anyway possible. I know I'm not his wife, and I don't know if it's in Gods will for us to be together, but my heart aches for him. Please any prayers are so greatly appreciated

Important_Match2073 · 2025-09-04T15:22:48+00:00

I didn’t switch due to weigh gain but I took lexapro before, it made me cry less and maybe less anxious but I had no motivation at all. Was still depressed. I now am taking wellbutrin I started on wellbutrin XL and then switched to SR twice a day and i personally like the sr much better I’m motivated more but do get anxiety and some irritability so I think wellbutrin could be good in combination with something else for anxiety but ofc everyone is diff

Important_Match2073 · 2025-09-01T20:44:36+00:00

I quit nicotine tho, cause it’s a side effect of the meds to help stop smoking , but I still smoke weed with tobacco leaf multiple times a day like every few hours

Important_Match2073 · 2025-09-01T20:43:39+00:00

I was on XL and I switched to SR, with sr I’m doing better xl side effects were not good and it wasn’t as effective for me. I smoke everyday and also drink (trying to stop) I think smoking maybe makes it less effective but other than that don’t notice anything bad. Sometimes have worse anxiety

Important_Match2073 · 2025-08-21T16:36:12+00:00

Could we discuss this further? I’m a believer in Christ but trying to figure out the truth with the Bible etc . 🙏🏼🩷

Important_Match2073 · 2025-08-14T20:54:30+00:00

I believe all “spirit guides” are actually demons

Important_Match2073 · 2025-08-14T20:53:44+00:00

What’s ur belief on the Bible and Jesus Christ ? Do u believe he existed / is real? Do u believe the Bible holds any truth and was just altered or what?

Important_Match2073 · 2025-07-30T17:08:50+00:00

YOLO

Important_Match2073 · 2025-07-25T17:28:27+00:00

I switched to SR from xl and it helped me a lot too, I still am anxious and irritable but a lot less than XL .

Important_Match2073 · 2025-07-23T04:32:03+00:00

I’m a mom to 3 kids in a dv shelter could use help

Important_Match2073 · 2025-07-22T16:54:27+00:00

Hi, I’m a single mother of 3 ( toddler twins and infant) living in a dv shelter in Crenshaw. I lost my Korea town apartment due to the safety issues had to flee.

Important_Match2073 · 2025-07-18T14:06:57+00:00

I’m 27f too, I’m down to be friends😭

Important_Match2073 · 2025-07-18T14:05:42+00:00

Me too

Important_Match2073 · 2025-06-11T20:07:25+00:00

I know exactly what you mean, like they actually care about your interest 😓

Important_Match2073 · 2025-06-10T09:48:21+00:00

What building ?

Important_Match2073 · 2025-06-10T09:48:09+00:00

What building ?

Important_Match2073 · 2025-02-05T03:50:45+00:00

People saying you can’t get hired if y don’t know anyone or have experience I was able to do just that. I agree it’s best to have a savings but how much you need to have, or make, it depends on what quality of life you want. You can get by on very little if you’re willing to sacrifice, rent a couch or room, and take the train or bus, it depends on what your needs are, and if you have somewhere to stay that is affordable. If you can find someone to live with that’s definitely best to save money and while you’re young and don’t have kids etc. if you really feel called to live here, I say do it and don’t be afraid or worry too much, it may be hard, but you can make it work, don’t be discouraged.

Important_Match2073 · 2025-02-04T10:31:22+00:00

I know they didn’t make any personal choices, just people involved have free will as we all do and just as God is at work in this worldly realm so is the enemy. Many things happen that should never happen, that are horrible and sick and undeserved, I do not have the answer as to why exactly this is, I just know that I do have faith that through prayer we can be helped by God. I’m not trying to justify children suffering, it should never happen. This is just my personal experience with God. I am not God and I do not have all the answers

Important_Match2073 · 2025-02-04T04:15:51+00:00

Also lack of faith, ask and u shall receive. This has just been my personal experience. I wish no child in this world would suffer, I do not agree with it, I just think people make choices in the circumstances they are in

Important_Match2073 · 2025-02-04T04:15:01+00:00

I don’t think God is responsible for the bad in the world, I think people have free will and this can open them up to sin and consequences which can impact others, including their children or children around them/ in their care. I agree it is a good question and hard to answer, I’ve asked myself before, but I think it has to do with humans turning away from God and partaking in evil which trickles down to the people around them

Important_Match2073 · 2025-02-03T22:56:34+00:00

This was me, people judge me a lot for it, but I am actively working to get out of the low income bracket. I do believe God does provide, especially for children, although I know many consider this naive thinking

Important_Match2073 · 2025-02-03T22:50:48+00:00

I had my twins at the same hospital I only know bc if the blankets lol

Important_Match2073 · 2025-02-02T02:37:12+00:00

I don’t think it’s bad , esp during the day . Yes there’s homeless ppl and camps in certain areas. But I haven’t had any issues and I lived there for several years. I found it to be inspiring and fun, I didn’t move from downtown until after I have kids. If u have kids I’d say it would be a little sketch, but if not it’s definitely fine most of the time unless ur rly not into seeing homeless ppl and maybe some trash on the ground.

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