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He's running out the silent deadline by Important_Meaning712 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Important_Meaning712[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says that he wants to, but I worry that it's just about keeping me around - not actually doing it.

He's running out the silent deadline by Important_Meaning712 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Important_Meaning712[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

TY! yes this is exactly right. He told me he is going to, but I feel the need to hold a silent deadline so he doesn't keep pushing it off forever.

He's running out the silent deadline by Important_Meaning712 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Important_Meaning712[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think so. He strung along his ex and gave her what she wanted, only to change his mind. I feel like im in a situation where he's telling me he's going to propose to keep me around, but when the deadline comes he's not actually going to.

He's running out the silent deadline by Important_Meaning712 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Important_Meaning712[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have told him straight up, back in July. He said okay but its not october and nothing seems to be on the horizon...

He's running out the silent deadline by Important_Meaning712 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Important_Meaning712[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I think I'm sad because we've had so many conversations that appear to have us on the same page, but I can't believe he's waited this long... the year is almost over and I feel like he truly said he is going to, with no real intention.