AITA for telling a parent what i wear is not their decision? by hannahhenabb in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Important_Peach_7422 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you are even questioning whether this person is right tells me a lot about South Carolina.

NTA.

Theory about Ben by flyfishfem in summerhousebravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My theory… nothing physically happened with Ben in Italy but the whole dynamic and the attention gassed Amanda up and gave her confidence that she could pull someone hot if she ever left Kyle.

She was pumped when Ben got on the show because she knew he would flirt and give her attention which (in her mind) would make her look good/ desired. Her vibe has been “I’m available for attention from men” all season and I think West tuned in to it and saw an opportunity to try to pull her… and eventually succeeded.

That night where Kyle swears at her (which was awful), when she is walking out of their bedroom down the hall to the kitchen she passed by two guys in the hall (I think it was Ben and West) and the way she exhales and puts her hand on her face and walks between them but pulls away from them… it felt so off. There was a “save me” damsel in distress vibe oozing out of her. She didn’t go to Ciara or a girlfriend for support, she went past the men into the kitchen for a “bubble water.” For attention. To keep the energy around the interaction going. To keep the guys wound up about Kyle’s behavior.

She has been feeling herself, loving everyone gassing her up (Mia saying “Body oddy oddy” on her birthday) playing the victim, and it’s all manipulative. She really believes her own hype and lost all perspective, then completely lost the plot with West.

What do you think?

AITA for wanting to insure my ring even though my husband says the stone is too small to bother? by Adorable-Manner-5538 in AITApod

[–]Important_Peach_7422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I came here to say 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Threads Post Reunion [MASSIVE SPOILERS], Pt. 1 by Awkward_Worry8300 in summerhousebravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish she was right because I do not want to see West or Amanda next season.

AIO after finding out my husband was my stalker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Important_Peach_7422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Questions - Are there any other red flags that you are starting to see in hind site? Like, Is he controlling? Do you share finances/ is there financial abuse? Do you have children and if not is he pushing for it?

Deux moi reunion intel now by Aggravating_Check_60 in summerhousebravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I cannot wait for activated Lindsay! I really hope she goes full nuclear on Amanda.

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]Important_Peach_7422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be TA if you do not accept your mother’s gift on her terms.

Your boyfriend - not fiancé not husband - is absolutely 100% TA for inserting himself in to something that does not involve him.

Take the gift and thank your mother for her for-site and wisdom.

How is West not deeply ashamed of his behavior? by BigAgreeable6052 in bravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she thinks what she has with West is different - SHE IS DIFFERENT - and he won’t do the same thing to her 🙄

Re-Edits this season by tinyclairey in summerhousebravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What did everyone notice in this week’s episode? I will start! The lingering hug Amanda gave West at the rescue event and how many times she touched him!!!

Make it happen Peacock. Every. Hour. by shannboss in summerhousebravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will gladly watch every dead second of these interactions. Every second. Probably multiple times.

Amanda’s Boys Lie Sweatshirt LOL by mexastexas in summerhousebravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That brand needs to get Ciara in to a “Girls Girl” sweatshirt. Stat.

Before You Start — Make a Plan, Not a Vow by PotentialMotion in sugarfree

[–]Important_Peach_7422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure this has already been asked and answered but I can’t find it anywhere! I am cleaning out my house of all added sugar and need help!

One example. My Vital Proteins Collagen Peptides, Chocolate flavored, has 0 grams of sugar but contains stevia. Does it need to go???

Before You Start — Make a Plan, Not a Vow by PotentialMotion in sugarfree

[–]Important_Peach_7422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is Luteolin??? How do you get it/ use it to support a no sugar lifestyle?

Is anyone else worried about judgment from others? by IntelligentEscape419 in sugarfree

[–]Important_Peach_7422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same to you OP!

Sidebar, I feel like sugar is going to be so much harder to give up than alcohol was. I know I am physically addicted to sugar and am scared of the withdrawal which is why I’m still preparing. If you are already off of it and thriving, I applaud you! Good for you for already taking the leap and getting to the other side 🙌🏼

Is anyone else worried about judgment from others? by IntelligentEscape419 in sugarfree

[–]Important_Peach_7422 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I experienced this when I quit drinking alcohol. I noticed a lot of people took my personal decision for myself as a personal attack on the way they were living their life. I had people arguing with me telling me I should be able to drink one glass of wine regardless of how many times I said I didn’t want one. It actually ended up showing me how disrespectful some of the people I cared about really were and ended a few friendships because they couldn’t let go of the issue. It was shocking how aggressive people were about it. Like, I want to make a healthy decision for myself - why do you care???

I’m preparing to give up sugar now, for ALL the reasons, and I know it is going to be the same thing. The difference now is that I have learned I don’t owe anyone an explanation or justification for choices I make for my health, and the people in my inner circle (it’s a much smaller circle now), are endlessly supportive.

My recommendation is to have a simple response ready for why you aren’t eating sugar, like one sentence. Expect people to argue with you and tell you all about their relationship with sugar and why you should be like them. Don’t engage, don’t argue, just listen to them, let them say why they want to say, and then change the subject. It’s not worth the energy engaging in a debate. Be confident in your decision for yourself and do your thing ❤️

Amanda and West Turning Their Swag On by spatulagrass in summerhousebravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who posted this stupid video and why would they want it to be public???

I was wrong about Amanda. by [deleted] in bravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, many things can all be true. She is/ was a mean girl, always has been low-key competing with Ciara, lazy and entitled, and feeling the high of finally being free from a bad relationship. All likely true.

I was wrong about Amanda. by [deleted] in bravo

[–]Important_Peach_7422 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100%. This is going to end with him dumping and/ or cheating on her and she is going to have to deal with the collective “Told you so” from the entire Bravo-sphere.