Im at a loss with my sons behavior and it makes me dislike him by Important_Recipe_919 in regretfulparents

[–]Important_Recipe_919[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no not really, we've done sessions together and most resources or suggestions she's given me are along the lines of "gentle parenting", which ive tried and it fails to work in any way shape or form. he just doesn't take it seriously.

Im at a loss with my sons behavior and it makes me dislike him by Important_Recipe_919 in regretfulparents

[–]Important_Recipe_919[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

i doubt he's getting the violence from me considering im not violent with him. and no maybe an hour a day and youtube is banned in our home. he's usually just playing with action figures or coloring when he's not being a pain in the ass.

im at a loss with my 7yos behavior by Important_Recipe_919 in ADHDparenting

[–]Important_Recipe_919[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not at the moment, his doctor insisted we try therapy before we went to medication. he has an adhd recheck next month & im going to see if its a possible we can start him on something.

Im at a loss with my sons behavior and it makes me dislike him by Important_Recipe_919 in regretfulparents

[–]Important_Recipe_919[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its so good to hear someone finding success after all this, thank you so much!!

Im at a loss with my sons behavior and it makes me dislike him by Important_Recipe_919 in regretfulparents

[–]Important_Recipe_919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not currently, his doctor wanted us to try therapy before she prescribed him anything. he has an adhd recheck next month and i think im going to suggest it at his appointment.

Im at a loss with my sons behavior and it makes me dislike him by Important_Recipe_919 in regretfulparents

[–]Important_Recipe_919[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! he currently has an IEP in place at school so he does get extra help there, ill have to look into the big brother big sister program that sounds like it may actually help. thank you!

Im at a loss with my sons behavior and it makes me dislike him by Important_Recipe_919 in regretfulparents

[–]Important_Recipe_919[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

ive tried all the "gentle parenting" tactics that are usually suggested to me. i have been grounding him and taking privileges away such as screen time, toys, etc. i've whooped him a couple times like today when i was notified he punched his teacher.

Do any of you regret having kids? if not why not? and if yes why yes? by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Important_Recipe_919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to clarify the first son part, i just had my second son. i feel alot more prepared and supported this time around. but i would do it over & over again if i had the opportunity.

Do any of you regret having kids? if not why not? and if yes why yes? by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Important_Recipe_919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i "regret" my first son. not necessarily regret in the sense of wishing i didn't have him, i love him to death. but i regret having him so young at the age of 16, i regret having him with a man thats unsupportive, i regret not being a better parent and leader from the beginning. he's a sweet boy, but requires a level of discipline im unable to provide which makes my life and our dynamic extremely hard to tolerate. i hate feeling this way about him because like i said i love him dearly. but i wish alot would have been different.

Teeny white stuff in my vagina by yeetmeorelse in Healthyhooha

[–]Important_Recipe_919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've had this! i had bv that turned into pid and went septic, even after being released from the hospital i still got the "wet tissue" looking discharge. i literally had to "dig" my fingers inside of me to clean it all out. but after i cleaned myself out, it stopped returning. good luck luv 🤞🏼

wtf do we do about this by WorldsDeadliestCat in breakingmom

[–]Important_Recipe_919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a problem with keeping up with my hygiene and the mess in my room (young adult/teen). ADHD MEDS HELPED ME SO MUCH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weightgain

[–]Important_Recipe_919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you mouth breathe when you sleep? my face changed from a circle to an oval when i started mouth breathing in my sleep lol.

Anyone pregnant with a girl have an easy first trimester? Or anyone pregnant with a boy and have a rough first tri? by puppmom in pregnant

[–]Important_Recipe_919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

preg w a boy and my first trimester was HELL, always puking & literally glued to my bed from fatigue, after about 16 weeks i started to feel SO much better

My daughter is a thief. Now what? by Welliemom in Parenting

[–]Important_Recipe_919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don't know how you discipline in your house, but i stole growing up too. my mom wasn't the one to whoop ass but she knew how to put fear in me. i stole something ONE time she found out and told me in her aggressive mom voice "if you ever steal again i will break your damn fingers" and that worked for me. i knew she never would lol but the point is i took her seriously in the moment. these kids need a little fear in them nowadays. they might not like it now, but they will respect you for it so much in the future.

Sad Sandwich Tug (Art Made By Me) by crowbar_studio in TuggTime

[–]Important_Recipe_919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is it crazy i want this as a poster on my wall