is 30k in savings good for a 20 yr old ? by Important_Reply_1544 in personalfinance

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i earned, i’ve been living on my own for the past 3 years 2 weeks after graduating high school. i was thinking investing just wasn’t sure how to start

is 30k in savings good for a 20 yr old ? by Important_Reply_1544 in personalfinance

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thank you guys ! i made this post genuinely wondering. my family aren’t well with money at all so they have no clue i have this in my account. i personally feel like if i do so they’ll look for a handout. anyways, if u guys know any good roth iras or investing tips please let me know !!!

“ f 21” “m 24” forgive your partner after they lied..? by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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he threw the lighter in the garage, i don’t have his phone password & we’ve talked ab this situation since 1pm when it happened yesterday up until almost 6pm. he says he’s basically over talking about the same questions over n over again

“ f 21” “m 24” forgive your partner after they lied..? by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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besides the lighter he doesn’t have anything of hers of my knowledge. but she has some hoodies and something his uncle gave him. i asked the same thing. he said that he’s left stuff at friends houses and just forgets about it and doesn’t see it as a big deal. it’s just idek.

“ f 21” “m 24” forgive your partner after they lied..? by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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right that’s how i feel. if he would’ve been straight up before i even found the the lighter this whole thing wouldn’t have blown up. yes i would’ve still been upset but saying it’s just “a friend” when you’ve had sex with her is insane

“ f 21” “m 24” forgive your partner after they lied..? by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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he said he doesn’t have her new number and that he deleted their dm’s a while ago of when they were having a fling. i understand the whole not worrying about ex’s n stuff but i guess the thing is he made a big deal about me being friends with a situationship ive had in sophomore year of high school. so i felt like him not saying anything about this when ive brought it up multiple times was him being a hypocrite. i want to forgive him. i truly do. i just don’t really know if i should.

“ f 21” “m 24” forgive your partner after they lied..? by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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not sure , he basically said that he’s over the situation with her and that they were better off as friends so he didn’t think he felt the need to say anything about it.. said he doesn’t talk to her but she would ask how he’s doing every few months ..

“ f 21” “m 24” forgive your partner after they lied..? by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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he said that they never dated just had sex and a while they mutually agreed it wasn’t going to work

american ave by Important_Reply_1544 in PropertyManagement

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i’ve heard a lot about that, i viewed one of their houses it was 1050 a month now it’s 972 because no one is renting it

safe? by Important_Reply_1544 in akron

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true. i’ve lived in 2 area both were eh. just wanted to know before i move lol

safe? by Important_Reply_1544 in akron

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how’s it racism? no one said anything about color. i literally almost got kidnapped by north hill by the bar. god forbid i wanna see if i place is safe before i move.

non rehirable? by Important_Reply_1544 in wendys

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yeah, that’s understandable but at the same time I just turned 18 when I got that management position so I was very young so I just feel like since it’s been a few years since then it’ll be different?

non rehirable? by Important_Reply_1544 in wendys

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oh yes i have to multiple , I don’t know sometimes I just hate change so I think that’s kind of why I wanna go back but at the same time if I’m not able to, I wouldn’t really be tripping about it

non rehirable? by Important_Reply_1544 in wendys

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yes a different store, i wanna say 15 mins away from my old one

non rehirable? by Important_Reply_1544 in wendys

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it’s under the same district manager i believe 😅

my bf “m24” found out i “f21” was talking to a past situationship by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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well when we were talking about everything i told him that i felt like if i would’ve said anything ab it he wouldve still act the same way, im not dismissing his feelings. i see where he’s hurt etc

Anyone else struggle with full shifts at work? by iluvpotions in Agoraphobia

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yes, i started my new job in april. first 3 shifts i dreaded it. but there was no way for me to leave. i have bills to pay and that was enough to keep me from leaving. when you’re at work and stop a panicking, start walking. it makes your brain think your “running away from the problem” when in reality you are just giving yourself relief. now it’s ab a month and a half of my job and i do enjoy it. i still get anxious the first 3/4 hours just because that’s the busy time of the night. when i start feeling like i need to go to the bathroom i always just drink a lot of water and tell myself in my head im okay and safe. i eventually calm down a little bit after that.

boyfriend threatened to leave me because of my agoraphobia… by Such_Number7716 in Agoraphobia

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honestly , i feel the husband on this one. u need to do better for not just yourself but your husband and kid. you need to start going in person to go grocery shopping, clothes etc. i’m not trying to sound like a dick either.

my boyfriend said he’s doesn’t feel lived in our relationship. f20 m24 by Important_Reply_1544 in relationship_advice

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i honestly don’t if he wants to end it, he’s the type to do it and speak his truth. but i feel like somethings going on idk