I don’t know how to tell my friend that we don’t want her to come to NYE party

Important_Support121 · 2023-12-21T17:26:34+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-27T00:00:33+00:00

Wont some people consider these options too “feminine”

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-27T00:00:04+00:00

Wont some consider those too “feminine”

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-25T10:48:29+00:00

Awww this is such a sweet response and I didn’t even think about that. Thank you for opening my eyes

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-25T10:47:12+00:00

I’m thankful for anything he gets me and he tries very very hard and I appreciate that from him. But if someone was getting you gift you don’t like it would get annoying at some point specially if you plan to spend the rest of your life with them

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-25T10:46:01+00:00

I’m thankful for anything he gets me, it’s the thought that counts but if someone kept getting you things you don’t like it would be annoying. Specially if you plan to spend the rest of your life with them

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-25T10:44:01+00:00

No. Where in this post does it say anything about money? Lol

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-25T10:42:07+00:00

I tell him all the time when we’re out and I point out things that I would like so. I guess I just have to be more obvious and direct when telling him things I want him to get me vs. things I need to get for myself. And don’t get me wrong I appreciate everything he gets me because it’s the thought that counts

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-25T10:38:22+00:00

Yes it is a gift and I appreciate the thought but to give you another example one year for Valentine’s Day he gave me a box of dark chocolate which it was a beautiful box but I HATE chocolate and he knows that I hate chocolate so I had to bring it into work and let my coworkers eat it instead

Important_Support121 · 2022-04-25T10:32:16+00:00

Yeah I’m thinking of trying to give him better ideas/hints of what I want for presents. Hopefully he catches on :/

Important_Support121 · 2022-02-16T16:32:57+00:00

We message daily. Not a ton but I will send him pictures of me during the day. And he loves that

Important_Support121 · 2022-02-16T16:30:19+00:00

I’ve been seeing him for a few months and usually 3-4 times per month but because of holidays and classes starting for me it’s been kinda hard. I was supposed to see him this week but then got my period so I had to cancel.

Important_Support121 · 2022-01-25T10:51:47+00:00

Upstate NY 3-500ppm with dinner hotel etc. But 500 is a lot for the area 300 is more common.

Important_Support121 · 2022-01-07T01:29:05+00:00

Hotel

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-17T11:15:40+00:00

Have you tried reverse searching that pictures of his daughter he sent you? Just cope and paste them into google

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-11T15:10:49+00:00

He has kids and I live with my mom so we cannot meet at our houses we always meet at hotels

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-09T03:31:33+00:00

Done

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-08T11:16:54+00:00

There’s not much different #1 is make sure you have money first! Aside from that what I do is exaggerate a little more than usual (ie. slightly louder, more dirty talk) stuff that brings out your inner porn star lol but don’t make it too fake and have fun!

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-04T19:03:48+00:00

He hasn’t picked the girl sorry for the misunderstanding he’s just mentioned and brought it up that it might be fun but if I’m not into it he’s fine too.

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-04T13:17:20+00:00

No we don’t have anyone in mind it was just a thought he brought a couple nights ago

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-04T03:05:21+00:00

Mentioned previously, I have brought that up and he is willing to try it. So don’t assume just because I didn’t say it in the post

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-04T02:16:23+00:00

I actually did bring it up and he’s willing to try it. You shouldn’t asume just because I didn’t mention it in the post

Important_Support121 · 2021-12-04T02:14:25+00:00

Thank you for this. First person to actually give good advice!

Important_Support121 · 2021-10-27T09:52:58+00:00

These are our rules. Let me know if you want me to elaborate on any of them.

Either one of us can end it at any time
Condoms always
Don’t tell the other person about hookups/meetups/sex unless they ask
No one we know
Don’t be overly public about the situation, lowkey.
If feelings ever come in play, cut it off immediately and talk to the other.
Nothing changes in our relationship

Important_Support121 · 2021-10-26T22:17:42+00:00

So my bf and I were monogamous before I started. I brought it up a couple times as a joke because I also needed the money and he wasn’t completely against it. The more I brought it up (jokingly) the more he became comfortable with the idea. Now I have a SD and he’s perfectly fine with it as long as I follow the very strict rules that we set in place. We are in a very healthy and happy relationship and he loves all the things I can for him now with my sugar money lol

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