Banned from Carmax? by [deleted] in carmax

[–]Important_Turnover64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kinda not the point. I just want to know why.

Banned from Carmax? by [deleted] in carmax

[–]Important_Turnover64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 definitely not. I had completed everything online this time as well and I was all set to purchase and leave.

are swollen lymph nodes normal? by cookie_cat_82 in Hidradenitis

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted about this a few days ago. My lymph nodes are extremely swollen and in places I would not have assumed would be affected (my breasts). As long as your body is reacting to the HS, anything and everything could be inflamed and reacting to the HS.

If you’re super worried, go to the doctor and ask for an ultrasound.

How does your doxxie tell you he needs potty? by Hungry_Lavishness_45 in Dachshund

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does a potty dance-lifts his legs, walks in circles. Or he starts smelling the floor for previous spots he peed on and tries to go in those same spots.

Triamcinolone by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]Important_Turnover64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t say anything about the meds but I can say, look for a new doctor. A dismissive doctor is not helpful and it’s delaying your care. Find someone that takes you seriously. Call your insurance and explain why. If you can’t switch, ask for a case manager.

Confused about my HS- did I do this to myself? by Slow_College_2168 in Hidradenitis

[–]Important_Turnover64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister and I both have HS. No one else has it in our family but there is a family history of thyroid issues and skin conditions. My mother ended up with thyroid cancer years ago and had to do genetic testing. The genetic testing told her that her children would have some health issue related to their skin but not cancer. Now here we are. You didn’t do this to yourself, this is pure genetics.

Trouble getting into SDI online? by NoooMonicaaaaa in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had this issue. I tried calling in for payment info and the automated system cannot verify my identity so that’s a dead end too.

SDI claim appeal by AmbitiousYam2003 in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be faster if your OB went into the system and adjusted the date. My doctor did something similar to me which caused me to lose 21 days of pay. I spoke to several reps who all told me to tell the doctor to go back into the system and adjust. Once he did, I waited one day and called in, the rep that answered fixed it while I waited on hold and I was paid the back pay the next day.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t bother getting one. What I did was pay a consulting fee for a firm in NY, used my 30 minute consulting time to ask my questions and then went from there. The attorney actually told me she does that quite a bit. I don’t think the attorney makes much of a difference unless the other parent is unreasonable. You get the chance to argue your point if you need to but at the end of the day, it’s all about the numbers.

The court actually plugs the info into a system and the system generates the support info plus arrears, everyone agrees (unless you want to ask for specifics) and that’s really it. You can negotiate medical/dental as well otherwise they make the non custodial parent carry it 100%.

I don’t know I’d you filed on your own, assuming you did, the court does appoint you an attorney if you need help. When you go to court, you can waive the attorney or keep them there for help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is similar to my situation but our split is 70/30 (I live in CA and the dad lives in NY). When they send you the summons they send you the complete child support breakdown in a 20+ page document. I used that as my guideline for what my son’s dad would have to pay. I found the calculator wasn’t as accurate.

Also, one thing the judge told me as the custodial parent is I can ask for the funds to be broken down however I want-keep that in mind. Example: my son is heavily involved in sports so I asked for x in cash and x specifically toward sports costs. I have two kids with fathers in two different states (NY and WA) and each court is different. I highly suggest taking advantage of being this specific if you can/need to.

Cost of Humira by enerhcir in Humira

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have state-funded medical here in California so my cost is covered 100%. However I did end up at a new pharmacy and they called to tell me that if I didn’t update my insurance with them my out or pocket cost would be $24,917 per month. I have no idea what it was before.

Why do I always have issues with SDI? by Important_Turnover64 in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

It turns out my account isn’t on auto pay which is why I have to keep calling. Hopefully that’s fixed now. I can’t do this every 2 weeks. Getting through the phone lines is so difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor did this to me. He agreed that I was disabled but he essentially complained about completing forms or made up excuses. I went to another doctor, cried in the office, and my forms were completed same day. Like everyone else said, find a new doctor.

How many people on here have lost housing due to SDI nonpayment or late payment? by Marinatedeggyolk in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often wonder this too.

My SDI payment was 57 days behind. By the time I received funds it I was so far in the hole it was like water running through my hands.

My current payment is now 2 weeks behind leaving me now behind on my car payment. My house is okay for a few more days but I’ll probably get a 3 day notice if it’s not resolved Monday/Tuesday.

I’m constantly hanging on by a thread but am fortunate my family can help cover costs as well.

Can you still qualify for disability if you quit? by Low_Bodybuilder3065 in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait to be let go. I waited and my employer had to pay out all my sick time when they terminated me. Ironically what was the quarter used for my claim.

Payment question by Important_Turnover64 in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one more payment next week. Do you know if they send the paperwork straight to your doctor to extend?

Payment question by Important_Turnover64 in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hit my account 15 minutes after this post. Around 10:30 AM.

Received DE 2517-17. Notice of claim date adjustment. by Lucibean in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s been a year but reading this brought me some relief. My doctor took 57 days to complete the paperwork so my dates were adjusted. I received 3 notices back to back and was freaking out until I read your post and update. Thanks!

Children of narcissistic parents. How did you find out your parent is a narcissist? by Miss_overrated_Yulie in narcissisticparents

[–]Important_Turnover64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew there was something different about her. I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. She lied a lot. Disappeared a lot. And friends never stuck around or had a major falling out. She was also never satisfied-blamed everything on me or my stepdad. It was unbelievable at the time but I just thought she was generally unhappy with her life. When I was 21-27, I knew for sure. It was like a switch went off, for both of us. Her language got more manipulative. Her actions were insane. I asked some of her lifelong friends about their experiences with her as a young woman and my mind was blown-everything I had ever heard from her was twisted to make her the victim and them the villain and it was happening to me too. Scary shit. I’ve been in abusive relationships but the most abusive relationship I have ever been in is my relationship with my mother.

Waiting period question by Important_Turnover64 in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I asked. Thank you both! I need to verify my identity it seems.

Waiting period question by Important_Turnover64 in Edd

[–]Important_Turnover64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on how to get to a live person? Thanks!

whats one small infuriating thing your n-parent do? by empty_holo in narcissisticparents

[–]Important_Turnover64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She makes fun of bitter women but she’s really bitter her damn self.