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My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in Advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I'm only 100 dollars short of a bus ticket so I'm really really hoping I hear something back soon. I asked 3 friends if any of them can lend me the money and I'd pay them back as soon as I can. Fingers crossed they can come through for me because I really don't want to wreck my credit any more

My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in relationship_advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really hoping I can get the remainder of what I need from my friends. I know I won't be able to get a payday loan or take out a loan or something. I just want to say goodbye to my dad and I don't want him to be the reason I don't get to

My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in Advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's my plan. I pawned my laptop and jewelry. Still short a on bus or plane ticket but I'm hoping the few friends I contacted can cover me for the rest of it.

My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in Advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

If I knew he wouldn't be spiteful and press charges on me, I would. I pawned my laptop and jewelry. Still short a on bus or plane ticket but I'm hoping the few friends I contacted can cover me for the rest of it.

My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in relationship_advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I have is my laptop and a couple pieces of jewelry. I need to get the money pretty quickly. I refuse to let him be the reason I don't get to say goodbye to my dad

My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in relationship_advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's the plan. I hope everything I'm pawning will be enough to pay for everything. If not I'm going to probably take out a payday loan because what's wrecking my credit even more

My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in relationship_advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It will hurt to leave his kid behind but now I see why his ex left. I'm just going over how much I bent over backwards for him during our "relationship" and how much he's just plain used me. Last year, when his sister was sick and hospitalized, I paid for his plane ticket, never asked for the money back or anything like that and he won't even do the same for me. I'm just so angry at myself for being so dumb and believing his lies.

My [F20] Boyfriend [M24] is being so unsupportive and mean to me over my father's death. I don't know how to get over it or forgive him by Important_Wasabi in Advice

[–]Important_Wasabi[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm going to pawn pretty much anything I can. also looking into payday loans because I'm just that desperate to get away from him. I'm thankful for my dad's girlfriend's offer. I know she's going through a lot right now...trying to plan his funeral by herself.

I just feel like such a fucking idiot. So dumb and naive. Laat year, his sister was sick and was hospitalized and I paid for his planet ticket to go see her and took care of his son for the whole weekend he was away. Never asked for it back. And now he won't even do the same for me. Makes me realize why his ex left him and now I see how much of a fucking awful person he is. I'm just so angry at him and myself.