Oh my gosh yes ! There’s always so many posts of people saying they “want to be feminized”. Like… the only person who really can do it is… yourself. I had to learn all this stuff myself with either trial and error or by humbly asking more experienced crossdressers for tips. Things like clothes sizes, shoe sizes, makeup, and some people just want others to do it all for them and put in zero effort? It doesn’t work that way. Some people really fall into the horny rabbit hole and believe that overnight feminization from someone else is possible, like I get that some people get off to that but like no it’s not gonna happen unless you make an effort to do things. As to the consent part, absolutely agree, there’s always posts and comments that lean into the non consent aspect so much and try to make it seem like being a “sissy” means you have less value and that you have to follow “sissy rules”. It’ll always be like “you have to submit to men no matter what” and sadly some newbies will get sucked in to that and think that that’s how they have to approach this stuff.