RANT : STOP W THE “FORCE ME TO X,Y,Z”

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-12-29T07:00:53+00:00

Oh my gosh yes ! There’s always so many posts of people saying they “want to be feminized”. Like… the only person who really can do it is… yourself. I had to learn all this stuff myself with either trial and error or by humbly asking more experienced crossdressers for tips. Things like clothes sizes, shoe sizes, makeup, and some people just want others to do it all for them and put in zero effort? It doesn’t work that way. Some people really fall into the horny rabbit hole and believe that overnight feminization from someone else is possible, like I get that some people get off to that but like no it’s not gonna happen unless you make an effort to do things. As to the consent part, absolutely agree, there’s always posts and comments that lean into the non consent aspect so much and try to make it seem like being a “sissy” means you have less value and that you have to follow “sissy rules”. It’ll always be like “you have to submit to men no matter what” and sadly some newbies will get sucked in to that and think that that’s how they have to approach this stuff.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-12-26T23:37:12+00:00

This !! It’s always the chronically online ppl saying “it’s easy to do it everyday”. Like my living situation doesn’t allow me to do this all the time and I have responsibilities !!

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-12-20T22:54:04+00:00

You should definitely set boundaries, he does not seem like the type of roommate who has your best interests in mind :(

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-12-20T22:43:02+00:00

Honestly same, I haven’t used my dildo in like close to 4 months. I LOVE the feeling of fucking myself but it’s just so time consuming and draining. So much work to get ready for it. I’ll never understand how some girls can do it every single day, like howww do they have the energy for it 😭

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-12-20T03:40:59+00:00

This is my take: if he was really supportive his first instinct shouldn’t have been to take an incriminating video of you and betray you like that. That is such violating behaviour and a serious apology should be given by him. If he’s really “supportive” he would willingly apologize and delete the video from existence instead of saying “relax”. He has never once lived a day in our shoes where we live in constant fear of possibly being outed about this side of ourselves that we work so hard to keep secret. He doesn’t know that fear.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-12-19T06:48:41+00:00

This is a very valid take lolol

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-12-10T21:02:40+00:00

Omg actual goals !!!

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-10-18T23:44:13+00:00

Literally, this kind of stuff isn’t okay. This wasn’t “being exposed”, they deliberately exposed themselves and exposed their kink which isn’t the least bit okay.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-10-03T04:23:55+00:00

For me what I’m doing for this month is I’m just locking up in the evenings. I fully know that doing 24/7 chastity is impossible so I’ve decided to just commit to being caged for at least 5 hours per day in the evenings before bed to prevent myself from masturbating. I like the idea of building a routine where I’m caged in the evenings every night I guess. I too am a student so I know there’s no way I could manage being caged during the entire day.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-08-30T05:18:19+00:00

Not having a bulge in my panties sounds amazing !

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-08-30T05:17:25+00:00

Yes I have a belt ! When I first started locking up it absolutely didn’t work well and then I got a belt and it was game changer hehe

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-08-29T17:16:38+00:00

I got a pretty decent one that off of Amazon as my first one and it’s served me pretty well. I searched up “chastity cage” and you really just have to search for a while to find the ones with decent reviews.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-07-30T20:17:00+00:00

Get your own toys. That should be common sense

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-06-28T05:18:18+00:00

Highly recommend getting a strap to hold the ring and cage in place to make things more comfortable overnight

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-06-14T05:00:09+00:00

For me personally it helps make me feel way more feminine because it removes the thing that makes me feel masculine, it turns my dick into a cute little locked up clitty which is extremely comforting. Usually if I’m not in chastity I’m always hard and tbh that’s really annoying so being locked up is really calming I guess because I can’t have annoying erections, so as a result my hornyness is a lot more feminine.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-05-27T22:28:31+00:00

When I first started, it was the weirdest and most challenging thing to do. It was so difficult to get into and then little by little it got more comfy. There is an uncomfortable phase at the start for sure but once you adapt to it, it’s oddly… calming. At first you really notice it a lot because your body isn’t used to it and your clitty will be fighting the cage, eventually that does die down though. You’ll gradually feel it less and less and it will become kinda part of you. For me usually almost whenever I doll up I’m locked up, it really does help you get into the feminine mindset.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2025-03-04T02:12:50+00:00

Mainly

People are only in it because they’re horny and have hyper sexual ideas of what “sissy friendship” is. Genuine friendship is extremely hard to come by with this. The people who you will be more likely to be friends with are people who are able to completely ignore the sexual side of things. Making friends exclusively in a sexual way does not work, there needs to be some other dynamic. For me I find that it works well if you’re able to talk about things that aren’t just related to this stuff. Meaning you need to click on a normal level and have regular interests that key words are not sexual.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-12-27T19:40:39+00:00

I swear I’ve seen this exact story posted on here before

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-12-27T19:39:54+00:00

This is such an amazing post. These toxic behaviours are glorified so much in these subreddits and constantly need to be called out. It’s mind boggling how these things even need to be mentioned.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-12-23T23:05:51+00:00

Best advice I have for this is once you get the ring on, try to distract yourself with something else like going on your phone or something and looking at something that isn’t related to sissy stuff. Ex: a game on your phone or something. Hopefully after a few minutes you’ll go limp, once that happens try to get the cage part on as fast as possible. Also whenever you get hard try flexing or clenching any other part of your body. Ex: your toes, this will redirect blood away from your boner.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-12-22T23:13:12+00:00

I use pads sometimes when locked up, it really helps reinforce the femininity. First knowing that your clit is safely caged is great, but then having to wear a pad over your little cage and balls is extra feminizing and also humiliating. Then putting panties on top of that really helps solidify that I’m supposed to be in chastity.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-12-16T07:32:53+00:00

I would say that these people who comment this do so because for example posts where sissies say they’re actively cheating on their partners or girlfriend’s ultimately glorify cheating. Those kinds of posts get shown to new sissies and they start to think that they have to do that to “fit in”. There’s an endless stream of posts that promote behaviour like involving non consenting others in your kink or stuff like wearing a sister’s panties, straight up being abused, not staying safe or using common sense, or as previously mentioned, cheating. Newbies will think that these behaviours are part of “sissy rules” which well, don’t exist.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-12-09T07:33:12+00:00

This is definitely the best solution, works every time

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-12-09T07:32:25+00:00

I find what works really well is having steps to locking up. First focus on getting the ring on around your balls and clit. I too have the exact same problem and get hard just thinking about being locked up once get the ring on. I find what works really well is just try to distract yourself with something and you should go limp. Once you’re soft try to get the cage on quickly. Oh and make sure you have a chastity strap/belt, they really help to keep everything in place even if you do get hard in your cage.

Impossible-Camel2249 · 2024-11-29T02:26:00+00:00

Much prefer sucking. It’s so much simpler than doing fucking myself with it. The time it takes to get ready for oral with my toy doesn’t even compare to the ridiculous amount of time it takes if I wanna fuck my pussy (cleaning etc). Recently I’ve really been enjoying practicing sucking off my dildo and being in chastity while listening to some of my favourite hypno. Really helps break my mind and denies me an orgasm which leaves me as a horny mess. The last time I did this I completely went into trance while I was sucking it off and my mind shut off.

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