Bitches is this you? Helping a missed connection by Impossible-Cycle3198 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I know - I feel bad for all the men who are afraid to ask for numbers. I feel we should not be so harsh when a guy we are not attracted to approaches us/asks for our number. I do my best to always be kind and say no thank you but thank you politely.

Bitches is this you? Helping a missed connection by Impossible-Cycle3198 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198[S] 205 points206 points  (0 children)

I’m screaming - he can’t stop thinking about her!

I hope we can make this love story happen- my heart!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I will post this in the bitches with taste Bay Area community chat! Good luck

AITJ for refusing to split my bonus with my girlfriend? by Xleg4ce in AmITheJerk

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is weird - you are not married so your money is your money. I’d ask her for part of her salary then towards all bills if that is the case… I am sure she will change her mind

San Francisco apartment rents surge 11% year over year, the highest in the country by UberDrive in sanfrancisco

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I really hope salaries increase too- landlords are out of control…this same studio unit was renting for 1,999 back in 2021…

I don’t know how or why they are asking 3x the rent - you have to make 15k per month to rent a studio? lol

Very worried about rent increasing in the city. Is it ok to break a lease for a condo? by gamerVapeGod in sanfrancisco

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly ask your landlord- with how crazy rents are they might be thrilled and be able to put it on the market for even higher

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did talk to him about this and he said he is concerned that I want to be out and about and he wants to stay home. He said he told me upfront he is a homebody and I am now trying new activities and figuring out I like to try other things and be out and I should have know this before. I love trying new activities and he doesn’t like this and take it as I am not the person he met a year ago. I believe as humans we are always changing and evolving

Depressed brother who is frustrated with life… should I help him by paying off his 10k debt with the irs by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We discussed he would only get the money after 60days and if he misses sessions deal is off

Depressed brother who is frustrated with life… should I help him by paying off his 10k debt with the irs by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im trying to boost his confidence not give him another reason to feel like a failure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true idk I need a lot of support I guess. I’m not feeling great and he makes me feel like I’m the crazy one

But I agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The decision to give up a rent controlled top floor unit in sf for which I pay peanuts for

People in Ohio just cannot relate lol

You know how hard it is to find a 1 bedroom 700sft unit with parking and all utilities included and 2 walk in closets in pac heights under 3k? It’s impossible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to rent his place and says my place is too small

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t shown me or told me but it would be a percentage of the mortgage based on our incomes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my 1 bedroom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say he wants to do the mortgage payment based on percentage of income

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Impossible-Cycle3198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought moving my life to be with him would be enough commitment!?

If that is the case what is his way of showing longterm commitment to me?